I had a secret job as a stripper

@jen20619 (1300)
Ireland
December 22, 2006 2:56am CST
For the last two years until the last few months I had been secretly traveling to strip clubs outside my state and dancing nude.I know the first thing on peoples mind is ,did you enjoy it.Then truth is I didnt.But at times I found it hard to find other work and I guess I got so use to the money I found that hard to give up too.Two weekends a month Id do my usual thing tell family Im off to work in the casino .But there never was a casino.I would get on atrain and travel for 3 hours to the strip club.I got so use to this cycle it was hard to break the routine.It wasnt until I told someone that taught me off guard looking very worried.I finaly had to admit it ,it was to my ex bf.Some how after telling someone I taught of more ways of getting out of it and tried harder to find a descent job that I felt more comfortable doing.I got my first office job in two years..It was one of the my happiest moments.
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@matt608 (843)
22 Dec 06
Arnt you from Ireland? where they dont have states? :S Im confused lol. but well done for getting past it.
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• Australia
22 Dec 06
dont tell me its not good though. jen is a tottal freak
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@forfein (2507)
23 Dec 06
Yea, this one confuses me also. Ireland with States??? It is Counties, the same as here in England! Maybe stipping confused her mind!
@matt608 (843)
23 Dec 06
Why is she a freak
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@cr1st1nel (3564)
• Romania
22 Dec 06
You have passed some hard moments. Hope i will never pass such times never. I am glad for you now that you have finally sit on a serious and decent job. Good luck and take care of you and what you do in your life!
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• United States
23 Dec 06
this lady is not telling the truth, look at where she is from, and also her posts...
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@scottology (1208)
22 Dec 06
it is nice to have a secret job as a stripper
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• United States
22 Dec 06
I know someone that worked as an exotic dancer for many years. It has haunted her ever since then. She really has become troubled over this. I hope that you can get beyond that time. Live for today. Huggers.
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• Australia
22 Dec 06
jen that is bloody awsome. its a average body u got and ur a totall freak i want to get tottally freaky with u jen.ive got a fat now jen uve brightened up my pants. ya big freak
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• United States
22 Dec 06
I'm glad your finally happy. It takes alot to change things we don't like about ourselves and a ton of courage. Kudo's to you. Great job! And you did nothing you should be ashamed of. it's what you had to do. So put it behind you and move on. =o)
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@msqtech (15073)
• United States
1 Mar 07
You obviously had a moral problem with it. Dont worry just do your best to make yourself happy with your actions. If you find you love your self and your decisions others will love you as well.
@ankagar (1034)
• India
23 Dec 06
are you really serious about this
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@dominican (201)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
For me you don't need to be ashamed in making a living that you've worked hard for. I believe that every work is worth to looked up to for as long as you dont step on other people's foot and as long as its not illegal.
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• Italy
23 Dec 06
I think you have been very brave to tell this to all of us. Congratulations for you new office job, I wish you the best thing of the world. I'm sure you made happy many people with your old job, but now it's tme to change, your gifts to the men are quitted. I send you a big kiss for your new life!
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
hmm tresure your job know, iknow money is so important to us.. but always remember GOD IS ALWAYS WITH us ^_^
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@andreib14 (407)
• Romania
23 Dec 06
you must to find other ways to make money... you are to beautiful to do that
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@hcromer (2710)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I also worked secretly as a stripper out of state. My family never knew. I hated it and I only started doing it was because I wanted my boyfriend at the time to tell me not to do it. He never told me not to do it so I worked there for about 5 months. Good luck in your new job. Are you making a lot less money now? I know I am.
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@msqtech (15073)
• United States
1 Mar 07
I think if what you do now makes you happier with yourself it is the right thing. You cant force others to make your decisions for you.
@webbuff (926)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
there is no wrong in having a stripper as a profession (for me) you are earning good money, honest money... but in this profession you should always ready on what others might say about you because "stripper" is really a common household name for "wh$%#&" so you cant blame them. Also "in a relationship" status will also be hard. Im proud of you, you able to pull it off. Goodluck and always take care.
@chukwudi (1098)
• Nigeria
23 Dec 06
you where enjoing it so stop telling stories ,only try to do good and look for a better thing to do for old age the the worst stage
@medooley (1873)
• United States
23 Dec 06
Congrats on getting out of the stripping business. It sounds as if you are glad that time of your life has passed. I wish you the best of luck in the future. Keep on keeping on Jen.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
at least you got out of it now and is living far from what you used to be. im glad that someone came in you life and made you realize.
• United States
23 Dec 06
Well, first off I have to congradulate you on getting past this very hard part in your life. I'm glad you made the right dicision! (Not saying that being s a stripper is bad, but the fact that you didn't like it, and you stopped.)
• India
23 Dec 06
I admire you. Really, because become a stripper is an easy ( i mean you can get in such job easily if you are goodlooking),but to quite it and start a normal life and then to confess it is a very big thing and you need a big heart for it. Its very tough to survive in this world and you have the ability to survive. You are bold.and you have the right attitude too. Godspeed to you and good luck for lots of happy years ahed.
@gaboy_ska (296)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
There is nothing to hide if you really were a stripper. Well that's a decent job for me... hehehe i guess there is nothing wrong being a stripper..