WHAT WOULD YOU REALLY LIKE SOMEONE HELP YOU ACHIEVE?
By TallSteve
@TallSteve (80)
December 22, 2006 5:38am CST
Everyone wants help and most people like to help, but is it you really want help for?
4 responses
@caramello (4377)
• Australia
24 Dec 06
I think I would prefer to achieve something myself with out anyones help, but I am not one to step out of my comfort zone easily, so it would be for me a greater achievement if I could do it myself. (hope this makes sense, and I am sober) LOL
@TallSteve (80)
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24 Dec 06
Hi Lol,
Merry Christmas to you.
I understand what you mean (Im sober now as well)but I reckon you can have assistance in the form of advice, just like we do here in the forum, that you can be aware of as much as possible regarding whatever it is you are trying to achieve. At the end of the day the final decision and any risks involved will still be yours.
TallSteve
@rladiga00 (1165)
• India
22 Dec 06
1. Please try to avoid using the capital letters. (read mylot guidelines DONTs)
2. If I really need help, I call them, otherwise I do my things on my own. I might need the help from my parents when I plan to build my house.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
31 Dec 06
Actually I don't want help, I am a very independent person and I'd rather do things for myself, I don't like other people telling me what to do, I have a housemate who does that, tries to help out, he thinks he's being kind but he's really interfering and sometimes he's like my father. I don't feel a sense of achievement if someone else has helped me get something. For example an ex of mine once helped me get a job because they knew the boss, I felt that I didn't get the job because of my capabilities and qualifications, it was nepotism and I hated that job.
