Would you live with your parents after you get married?
By wm69love88
@wm69love88 (3466)
China
47 responses
@The_Sexy_Kid (122)
• India
23 Dec 06
I would for sure, live with my parents after marriage because i love them so much that i can't leave them at all. They are my greatest treasures. They have bought me up, they have taught me goodness and whatever I am today is just because of them so i can not leave them at any cost. I would pray from Almighty to give them a long life and may they always remain close to me until my last breath.
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@simplegal (123)
• Philippines
24 Dec 06
yes of course. You should live on your own not with parents. You are building your own family but except if your parents are old and need people to be with them it's ok just be sure they won't interfere with your family's life.
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@cr1st1nel (3564)
• Romania
23 Dec 06
Well i think i would live only in case in which i am really forced to do this thing. I don't agree the idea of living with the parents we have a personal life too and we shouldn't spend it with all of our family*me and my wife*. Good luck!
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@malambing (78)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
As much as possible NO. When my husband and I got married, we look for a place for just the two of us. He was studying then and my job contract just expired we had almost nothing but we resolved to ourselves that we will stay away from our parents (not that they're against us)so that we will know what responsibility really means. It's almost four years now and we're still living on our own with our 3 children. I just think that living on your own will teach you more about life than living with your parents
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@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
23 Dec 06
Oh, I can't stand living with my parents now and I'm trying to get away. Why would I want to live with them after I get married??? No way!! And like jimbo said, not having the privacy couples need would drive me crazy!
@feathers26 (865)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
If you have a choice I think it is better to live separately to avoid problems that might arise in the future.
@suicidestixx (144)
• United States
23 Dec 06
I did... and I wouldnt do it again. It was very stressful. Dont get married unless you can live like man and wife. Nuff said.
@histechnoangel (356)
• United States
30 Dec 06
We lived with his parents for a bit afterwards, and I also do NOT recommend it. I love his family, but 2 married couples in one household is rough. We ended up getting an apartment, and now we own a house.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
16 Jun 09
Not If I can help it. I been saving money for my
future family. I want to have my own house someday
for my wife and kids. But living with parents is fine
by me.
@kawalsukhi (641)
• India
16 Jun 09
Yes I always want to prefer to live with parenst after marriage as there is a unique happiness in living in a joint family.I am a part of joint family having 8 members from grandparents to my siblings.Its good to be part of them after marriage also.
@LindySparkles (399)
• El Salvador
23 Dec 06
I lived with my parents for a few months after we got married. We had already been living there for two years before we got married as well. We had bought a house just before we got married, but we had to fix it up before we could move in.
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
i prefer to live my own. To be able to learn life having family on my own. I will just visit my parents once in a while.
@twistedvanilla (244)
• United States
23 Dec 06
My husband and I lived next door to my parents for a year before we got married, and for us...lets just say we were only too happy to move, lol. For some people it could work just fine, though. I'm not 100% certain but I think some cultures thats the normal way of doing things.
@arcidy (5005)
• United States
12 Jul 09
I wouldn't mind living with my parents after I got married since we live in a big house and there are lots of rooms here. Plus I would have my parents looking over my kids when I go to work and I wouldn't have to pay for the rent of the house. But I doubt my parents would want me living with them after I get married lol.