Would you live with your parents after you get married?

China
December 22, 2006 12:00pm CST
Would you live with your parents after you get married?
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47 responses
• India
23 Dec 06
I would for sure, live with my parents after marriage because i love them so much that i can't leave them at all. They are my greatest treasures. They have bought me up, they have taught me goodness and whatever I am today is just because of them so i can not leave them at any cost. I would pray from Almighty to give them a long life and may they always remain close to me until my last breath.
• China
23 Dec 06
i wish you and your family happy everyday:)
@simplegal (123)
• Philippines
24 Dec 06
yes of course. You should live on your own not with parents. You are building your own family but except if your parents are old and need people to be with them it's ok just be sure they won't interfere with your family's life.
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• China
24 Dec 06
thanks for your reply.Merry Christmas!
@phon4u (2215)
• Laos
23 Dec 06
I would like to live with them as our social life. But when we afford enough we can live in our own house. For me, it was sad to move to our new house at the begining because my parents and i used to live together.
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• China
23 Dec 06
respect parents's decision,good luck to you!
@cr1st1nel (3564)
• Romania
23 Dec 06
family - family
Well i think i would live only in case in which i am really forced to do this thing. I don't agree the idea of living with the parents we have a personal life too and we shouldn't spend it with all of our family*me and my wife*. Good luck!
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• China
23 Dec 06
you need a private space,wish your dream will come true:)
@puma_nz (999)
• New Zealand
24 Dec 06
Hell NO!! Once your married you should be able to sort ya own life out, Get your own HOUSE! Wipe ya own bum etc..
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• China
24 Dec 06
thank you very much.Merry Christmas!!
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
As much as possible NO. When my husband and I got married, we look for a place for just the two of us. He was studying then and my job contract just expired we had almost nothing but we resolved to ourselves that we will stay away from our parents (not that they're against us)so that we will know what responsibility really means. It's almost four years now and we're still living on our own with our 3 children. I just think that living on your own will teach you more about life than living with your parents
@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
23 Dec 06
Oh, I can't stand living with my parents now and I'm trying to get away. Why would I want to live with them after I get married??? No way!! And like jimbo said, not having the privacy couples need would drive me crazy!
• China
23 Dec 06
you need a private space,thanks for your reply.
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
If you have a choice I think it is better to live separately to avoid problems that might arise in the future.
• China
23 Dec 06
thanks for your reply,by the way,i like your image.
@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
26 Dec 06
no, we move out.
• China
26 Dec 06
thanks for your reply.
• India
24 Dec 06
yaa i live with my parents.
• China
24 Dec 06
thanks for your reply.
• United States
23 Dec 06
I did... and I wouldnt do it again. It was very stressful. Dont get married unless you can live like man and wife. Nuff said.
• China
4 Feb 07
thanks for your reply.
• United States
30 Dec 06
We lived with his parents for a bit afterwards, and I also do NOT recommend it. I love his family, but 2 married couples in one household is rough. We ended up getting an apartment, and now we own a house.
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
2 Jan 07
too many rules and who owns the house makes the rules
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
16 Jun 09
Not If I can help it. I been saving money for my future family. I want to have my own house someday for my wife and kids. But living with parents is fine by me.
• China
12 Jul 09
thanks for your reply.
• India
16 Jun 09
Yes I always want to prefer to live with parenst after marriage as there is a unique happiness in living in a joint family.I am a part of joint family having 8 members from grandparents to my siblings.Its good to be part of them after marriage also.
• China
12 Jul 09
thanks for your reply.
• El Salvador
23 Dec 06
I lived with my parents for a few months after we got married. We had already been living there for two years before we got married as well. We had bought a house just before we got married, but we had to fix it up before we could move in.
• China
23 Dec 06
Best wishes for your new home .
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
i prefer to live my own. To be able to learn life having family on my own. I will just visit my parents once in a while.
• China
23 Dec 06
yes,this is a good way,good luck to you!
@babychel (130)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
nope...i would definitely have my own crib...hahaha... =)
• China
23 Dec 06
:)
• United States
23 Dec 06
My husband and I lived next door to my parents for a year before we got married, and for us...lets just say we were only too happy to move, lol. For some people it could work just fine, though. I'm not 100% certain but I think some cultures thats the normal way of doing things.
• China
23 Dec 06
wish you happy everyday:)
• China
13 Jun 13
I am not live with my parents because of my work.
@arcidy (5005)
• United States
12 Jul 09
I wouldn't mind living with my parents after I got married since we live in a big house and there are lots of rooms here. Plus I would have my parents looking over my kids when I go to work and I wouldn't have to pay for the rent of the house. But I doubt my parents would want me living with them after I get married lol.