Can you be yourself after marriage?

@brujj1 (228)
Canada
December 22, 2006 6:15pm CST
Can anyone continue being themselves after entering a relationship with the opposite gender?
2 responses
Gahagan
@Gahagan (143)
• United States
23 Dec 06
If you can't be yourself you're with the wrong person. I wanted someone who loved ME for ME. Likewise, I didn't try to change my husband. Living a different identity cannot last forever... and a marriage should last forever. Just my humble opinion, but for me Love Means never having to be untrue to yourself and never expecting your mate to be untrue to themselves.
Gahagan
@Gahagan (143)
• United States
23 Dec 06
I've been married to him for just over 20 years. We dated for about a year and a half. Got married when I was 24 and he was 32.
brujj1
@brujj1 (228)
• Canada
23 Dec 06
thats' great. I wish you the best.
brujj1
@brujj1 (228)
• Canada
23 Dec 06
how long have you been married? have you dated with him for a long time before marrying?
vinoth_123
@vinoth_123 (1876)
• India
23 Dec 06
It's not posible.
brujj1
@brujj1 (228)
• Canada
23 Dec 06
no? not even a bit?
vinoth_123
@vinoth_123 (1876)
• India
23 Dec 06
Yes,