Myspace and married people........

We both have separate accounts for myspace. I used it to find my friends from high school and college. He do the same too. We havent had any problems between us.

Myspace caused my husband and I some problems because he was secretly talking to girls on there. I started to get suspicious and went into his account and read the emails. I dont really blame myspace for it, I blame HIM for it and the girls that KNEW he was married!

Thats seem just not fair for you. Tell him to be fair by using it. I fhe did talk to the opposite side you should have the right to do so as well or else he should stop doing so if that what he really can affort.

Maybe you should know each other's passwords, if no one has nothing to hide then it should'nt be a problem, my husband and I have seperate accounts and he has female friends and I have male friends but I don't get too personal with anyone and neither does he, we have that trust, it's very important to have trust in a marriage, you can't let a stupid website bring problems to your marriage.

u just divorce him and marry those who can adjust with u

The funniest fight ever! How old are you? And what is a couple doing on Myspace. You must be very young, because that spot is for very young people, college kids or thereabouts. If it's only chat without the vediocam, it might be ok, because it might not lead to anything. Both of you are jealous, which is ok, but if it does not lead to anything it doesn't matter. But if it leads to anything both of you shouldn't do it if you want to stay married or you've to have an open marriage, and at your age that might also be a no-no. The best way out is to do it together and it'll give you something to do together.

Why not a joint account??? Then it should be mutal that both of you should be able to talk to who ever. I and my husband use to talk to who ever we wanted when we went on the internet. We trusted each other. Is there concern why there might not be a trust??? Or jealous??? things need to be talk out and gee dont ruin your marriage over talking on the internet not worth it. I have seen lots of marriges fall apart due to this type of behavior, be careful talk to him about it and both of you need to come to some type of agreement

As long as they all know your married it shouldn't be a big deal...but I did have a friend get a lot of headaches from a female on mysapce...and he is single..she just had issues with him talking to other women...Personally I don't like myspace. Too many whackos.

if he does it on myspace, he may be doing it outside of myspace as well...theres just more ways of getting caught on myspace...talk to him about your concerns... dont make rules, or give him an altimatum to stop myspace...just let him know what you think are the negative outcomes when one thing leads to another...and if he doesnt think your points are valid, then he's clearly not someone who values your views...

Tell him if you can't he can't and if he wants to then tell him you have the same rights. You love him and do not plan to cheat so what is the big deal if you talk to some people.

Obviously he's kinda controlling. Telling you not to do it when it's okay for him to do it. I believe that even if he does stop he will find a way to get on there and talk to girls. Again...Don't blame the site....blame the person. I wouldn't listen to him! my bf has over 2000 friends I don't care who he talks to. I'm never nagging him or telling him to get off. I don't care because I know he isn't doing anything wrong. I just have friends from highschool and a few people I've met online. I don't make it a habit to go and just add anyone like he does. But It doesn't bother me at allthat he's chatting with girls.

My husband and I have seperate accounts also. We haven't had any problems. I am not saying that anyone on here is blaming myspace for their problems, but I think the news and media put way too much blame on myspace for stuff that could have happened.

I think that is ridiculous that he doesn`t want you talking to other guy friends on there! Very insecure. Why not?! There are men and women all over the earth. You can`t talk to other guys...not even over the internet. it shouldn`t be a teenager problem. dont make a big deal about that. tell him get over it!