Did you beleive Extra-Marital affair???

I absolutly agree with you. When you say your vows you are joined in the site of man and God, those vows should be taken seriously, and noone deserves the pain that is associated with an affair. If you are truly not happy, then say so and get out, don't set yourself up to be and adulterer. I think the problem these days, is that not enough thought and preparation is put into getting married. I think it is done more on a whim now, then on a decision to make a lifelog commitment. I mean look at the marriage success rates in the past few years, they are steadily dropping. It is easier to stray then to stay.