wat do u think is better love or arrange marriage
By palaki
@palaki (61)
Malaysia
December 24, 2006 10:44am CST
as i have done love marriage ..i am quite satisfied with it
but still wanted to ask the arranged marriage ones tat is ther anydifference regarding
understanding
faith
love
conflicts etc
really can discuss
5 responses
@mukundguruji (195)
• India
25 Dec 06
When in Love there tow pairs of dreamy eyes looking at each other. Their sight may be blurred as there is a velvety curtain of love hung in between them. In Love you always try to show your best, act your best. The other person see you in your best, and in turn act her best. The truth will be somewhere in between. After marriage when these truths slowly unveil, the eye brows that till then bordered the shiny eyes start to twitch and turn. Love marriages are good if the lovers taking the decision are mature. Otherwise it may fall apart. Arranged marriages are no better. In this case there is no way to see what kind of person the other one is. But researching the background of a partner by the parents and relatives may do good. And there may be the need for a lot of compromise.
@raghwagh (1527)
• India
24 Dec 06
I think arranged marriage is good than love marriage, as it is seen many times that the no of divorses are from love marriages.Also love remains for only shot period and then couples start to understand the nature of their partners and then the real problem starts.When the responsibility starts then the couples furget love and start fighting.Instead this I prefer arranged marriage as both partners know everything about each other, also there are parents in between to solve ay problems if found.Also it is seen that the successrate in successfull marriage is more in arranged than i love marriage.