wat do u think is better love or arrange marriage

@palaki (61)
Malaysia
December 24, 2006 10:44am CST
as i have done love marriage ..i am quite satisfied with it but still wanted to ask the arranged marriage ones tat is ther anydifference regarding understanding faith love conflicts etc really can discuss
5 responses
@jen20619 (1300)
• Ireland
24 Dec 06
Id have to say love is a better than arrange marraige .I know some countries have arranged marriages and this sometimes works for the two people involved.They can sometimes fall inlove with each other.Great discussion
@palaki (61)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 06
dear wat i feel is marrige is just like a gamble f u win mean s u have all cards right & if u fail u r gone it really doesnt matter whether it is rranged or love it all depends upon both the person
• India
25 Dec 06
When in Love there tow pairs of dreamy eyes looking at each other. Their sight may be blurred as there is a velvety curtain of love hung in between them. In Love you always try to show your best, act your best. The other person see you in your best, and in turn act her best. The truth will be somewhere in between. After marriage when these truths slowly unveil, the eye brows that till then bordered the shiny eyes start to twitch and turn. Love marriages are good if the lovers taking the decision are mature. Otherwise it may fall apart. Arranged marriages are no better. In this case there is no way to see what kind of person the other one is. But researching the background of a partner by the parents and relatives may do good. And there may be the need for a lot of compromise.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
25 Dec 06
Of late in India, arranged love marriages are becoming popular. A man falls in love with a woman. They love each other and their parents are contacted. With little hesitation, they ultimately agree forthis wedding.
@raghwagh (1527)
• India
24 Dec 06
I think arranged marriage is good than love marriage, as it is seen many times that the no of divorses are from love marriages.Also love remains for only shot period and then couples start to understand the nature of their partners and then the real problem starts.When the responsibility starts then the couples furget love and start fighting.Instead this I prefer arranged marriage as both partners know everything about each other, also there are parents in between to solve ay problems if found.Also it is seen that the successrate in successfull marriage is more in arranged than i love marriage.
@rituja (217)
• India
25 Dec 06
There is no difference. More important is mutual faith and understanding. The sooner it develops, the better.