kissing before marrige

its all about being good to ourself.. how we take ourself in the journey of life. you can do anything on this earth. no one to question u except yourself. so.. to b clean from the inside.. take the decision which doesn make u repent later. simple

nothing wrong with a good kiss. Its a sign of love and if you are going to marry the guy, then give him a good snog

Judge for what your hubby wants, I am from India too. Many of the people will find it strange but its like this, Indian men are big time two faced. If the girl kisses them they might term it as she is one with the loose character and musthave lot of bf's as its seen as unethical by them. They all want virgins and untouched women for wives. If she refuses she may be termed as stuobborn and High and mighty. So either way girl ends up loosing the trust of her future husband and it sometimes results in break up of marriage. For which bride's family has to face a lot of ambarrassment. I feel you should avoid getting in to the situations like this and do not meet the person alone if its an arranged marriage. Meet with an escort that is the best bet. Though few men do not mind this so judge for yourself and see the kind of family you come from and the kind of family the boy is from. Is there any chancew that marriage may break up due to dowery issues or some other matters so be careful what you do. How long and how well have you known the boy, decide onthe basis of that.

frn! is is not good to come out from all the wrong happening here in name of religion and culture..... what r u told, kissing b4 merriege is wrong! then tell me,is suppression is not a crime? If u r not hurting others by ur doings , nothing is crime here..rules and regulations were made only to make ur life easy, but as time changes, we need to change these all.... So i think its not bad to kiss or be kissed by ur love to fell it. rather suppress and dream all the time abt it.

Why you are feeling this is a crime. In India it is not a crime. You can kiss your hubby. Don't think like that.

The only thing i woule like to tell is tat if the love is TRUE then it is not at all a bad thing.. I repeate .. IF THE LOVE IS TRUE....:-)

Its typical these days.

this is so stupid !! i have a question : if you kiss your boyfriend before your marriage what happend ?? and if no one know`s that u have been kissed him ?? i think this is stupid !! thanx

haha silly question really.you know you are very innocent.there is nowhere written that it is a crime to kiss your husband before marriage in india.had you asked the same question 30-40 years back it would have made some sense.nowadays kiss is such a triffle thing.couple even indulge in more deeper physical relation before marriage.if you feel you love your wud be husband and if you want to express your love for him,then go ahead kiss him.whats the big deal??

I THINK KISSING BEFORE MARRIAGE IS NO WRONG.. IT JUST A WAY TO BE CLOSE ... BUT ONLY SFTER YOU COMPLETELY TRUST HIM THIS CAN BE DONE... MOST OF THE PEOPLE IN INDIA KISS BEFORE MARRIAGE... SOMETIMES THIS KISSING FEVER STARTS RIGHT FROM SCHOLL LEVEL ITSELF...

yeah there is nothing bad in that,, if u like then whatever u want to do with hubby u can do,

When you are in love you are in love and you have accept it. When such being the case people have gone to the extent of kissing their partner not only in private but also in public places. Well I am talking to you about India of all places where till recently the culture was held in high esteem. I now feel that westerners are moving towards Indian culture while we are slowly westernising ourselves. Hope everybody agrees and I will get good ratings from everybody.

You are right world is changing but our cultures are made only for our safety and to make our life easier..... How ever it may looking foolish bad or that kind of things.. but we should adopt them.......and i think thts bad idea to expose your love in this way........

Hello, I think, if you both are agreed for do this thing.. So its not wrong for doing kiss....pls be keep it and continue. and one thing is not matter on depends country.. becz all person is alone in world..!

i think this doesnt affect as much what you mean. these things are just to have a little shock over and before the marriage.

hey i am from india... south india, kerala, that too... this ideology of being a virgin and 'untouched' before marriage is quite prevalent even in my place but i do really think its all nonsense!! seriously... it worked for our parents and grandparents... but it wud no longer work!! u need physical contact to know how much love exists between two souls!! no one uses those fance dialogues which people in previous generations used... no one can show their love through words alone, atleast not in this generation... we need that physical contact!! i wouldnt go to the extreme and ask u to sleep wid your boyfriend... that is your choice...but a kiss wont hurt.... who is even gonna know? and it makes u feel so goooooooooooddd.... trust me, i know ;)

Not only kissing but to cross any barrier before marraige is bad. Not only in India but in many countries such practice & trend prevail. Many religion also do not permit many things before marriage. All things as guided by religion are many a time good for ourselves.Hence to follow such things are good for all.

Nopes i dont think so only if u ve control on urself that u ill not go further.....

kiss can never be bad. in any situations , whenever you get a chance you have to enjoy it,i dont think there are any other alternatives........ so keep kissing......muuuuuuuuuuaaaaaaaaaah all the best to all......

i think thats crazy b/c u should be able to kiss the person u are about to marry b/c you have to have some kind of spark in the relationship