How long have you been married?

I totally agree with "countinue our journey like this until......". It is better not to say it. Things are so great, who wants to think about.......? Congratulations

And counting! May you keep on counting for a very long time.

ole Roz has been married a good long time himself. So, he does have advice worth listening to in that department. Good to see you posting again.

I hope for you many more happily married years, too.

Well, keep trying. Finding a good wife is worth the effort.

Seriously, when you have given up looking, and aren't even trying, that is when you are most likely to find someone. That's what happened to me. When a person is trying to find a spouse they often don't act as their real selves. Personally, I was down right goofy and awkward around girls I really liked. When I had just about given up on finding somebody, ie. wasn't really trying, was when I met my future wife. Since, I did not consider her as a possible partner I did not do my usual stupid stuff, but behaved normally. Turns out when I act normal, girls actually can stand to be around me. Anyway, not trying to find a spouse worked for me, maybe it will work for you.

Indeed, my wife does have a lot of tolerance and understanding, lucky for me! Glad to hear you are doing better the second time around. Just goes to prove a person can learn from experience. Merry Christmas to you and the little lady!

I guess I should have expected that response. Hope things go better for you in the near future and you can then say, " Not long enough!".

In our case, 34 years really is not that much of an achievement. My wife is really easy to get along with and a very nice person who loves me more than I deserve. When people ask me how I got such a good wife, I have to tell them it was dumb luck as we met when we were both 19 and got married at 21. I promise I was not knowledgable enough to know how to choose a good spouse. I sort of lucked into it.