Family Planning

Hi I was living with my now husband but wasnt married when I had my first.I was 17 and we had been trying I think since I was 16 or almost 17,yes I know young but we both had jobs so we was able to support one.I got pregnant at 17 and about a month before she was due we got married at my grandmothers house on the lake. I was 18 when I had her (turned 18 that dec before she was born). we lived with my dad for a while and then on our own then back with him . took us a while to realy get on our own, we had another girl 3 years later , my first had just turned 3 the month before my second and we was still at my dads. we finally got on our own and stayed that way before we had our 3rd which was a boy. he will be 2 in dec. we was never realy finacially off , got the bills paid and a little left til next payday sometimes it was very hard. I wouldnt of changed anything though. Maybe only that my hubby would of had a better job then or myself. He just got a good job on a land rig so finally i fill like things will get better for us and not as rough

I was eighteen when I had my daughter (only had one child) and I was married (got married ridiculously young) and was taking the contraceptive pill when I became pregnant but I had also been taking antibiotics and didn't realise this would reduce the effectiveness of the pill. To be honest it was really a bit of a nightmare. Had no money, a husband who was mentally still a child anyway, didn't even have our own home as we were living with relatives. The marriage didn't last, we separated when my daughter was 4 months old and that was the last we saw of my ex husband so I brought her up as a single parent. It was very tough but I do have a lovely daughter who is 26 now and just 5 months ago she had a gorgeous daughter of her own. As far as doing things differently goes ideally I would have been older and it would have been much better to have been in a stable, long term relationship but things worked out well in the end. I've no regrets.

I am 25 been married for two years and are curently trying for our first child. I do not have much to add but I am intrested in the responses.