Is it Love?
By MissMonique
@MissMonique (21)
United States
December 24, 2006 10:19pm CST
I have a boyfriend and he tells me that he loves me and i just look at him or i get real quiet i mean i like him alot i jus dont want to fall in love with him b/c everytime i do i end up getting hurt in the process and i try not to get to close to them and i know that is making him not like me b/c he is always saying that i dont like him when i really do so do you think i should tell him if i love him?
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53 responses
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 06
1st i have to say " dont let your past effecting your future". there are always up and down situation in this life, specially regarding love.so eventhough you always end up getting hurt but it doesnt mean you have to quit loving someone or express ur feeling to someone u love.what u do now might cause you of losing him because he will think that u didnt love him.go natural on ur relationship.if you love him too then its good to say it to him.let go your past and never give up trying until you get the right one...good luck
@theaterjunkie (342)
• United States
26 Dec 06
Honey, I have been hurt so many times by people that I thought loved me. Just go for it. If that's how you really feel for him, go for it. Not every guy is the same. I'm with my guy right now, and I couldn't be happier. I'm finally starting to realize that all guys aren't losers like the ones I've dated.
@arseniajoaquin (1732)
• Philippines
26 Dec 06
Tell him the truth that you love him. You won't lose anything. If it turns out that he does not really love you, it's not your fault. At least you've told him the truth. If he's sincere, then good for you both, you love each other. Don't compare with the past. It's painful to be hurt, but it's more painful if you keep your feelings to yourself and let the chance pass by where you may find happiness. Express your feelings, tell him that you love him too.
May God bless you. SEN
@carlito888 (244)
• Philippines
26 Dec 06
hei, getting hurt is a big part of falling inlove! everytime we love were taking risk of getting hurt! and i think you should tell him that you really hove him, dont let him think that you dont coz you do, and both of you love each other. getting hurt is a reality. dont let your fear to conquer your love for him. okei? Godbless and goodluck.
@KaHathaway (189)
• United States
25 Dec 06
trade you guys!
I love my long time but long distance boyfriend. I don't want to be the one to say it first but I swear sometimes I don't think he will ever say it.
@magdollars23 (1684)
• United States
26 Dec 06
If you do love him you should tell him that. And i am a firm believer that you shouldnt carry past experiences into new relationships because it will make you guarded and you may block out things or miss out on things that are good for you. If you feel this guy is a good guy then dont hold back because you may miss out.
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
25 Dec 06
Your boyfriend tell you he loves you because he feels its the best method to get in your pants. So basically he tells you what you want to hear.
@Irishchick22 (270)
• United States
26 Dec 06
Girl dont hold back , everybody gets hurt and if you hold back you might miss out on a good thing , so let the walls around your heart down , everything will be fine, remember everything happens for a reason, hang in there
@michelle28 (10)
• United States
26 Dec 06
I certainly do not think that anyone should ever say "I love you," if they don't mean it. It is misleading and will only cause to hurt feelings. However, if you do really like him, by all means, let him know how you are feeling. And as to the fact that you don't want to fall in love because you don't want to get hurt... well, that's life honey. Let yourself live, let yourself love. You are missing out on so much if you don't. Remember that old say... "Tis better to have loved and lost to have never loved at all"
@charmz89 (102)
• Philippines
26 Dec 06
Before I answer your question let me ask you this first, does he also said that he loves you? Or do you feel that both of you share the same feelings? If yes, okay go on tell him that you love him and your just afraid to be hurt again that's why your having a hard time showing or letting him know that u really love him. Then, its up to guy already if he'll love you in return or get disappointed to what you have than. What's important is you grabbed the chance to tell him and let him know that you love him. Anyways if he let you go, its not your lost. Its his lost! Cheer up.
@kodeshkodashim (925)
• United States
25 Dec 06
Key word (TELLs) ya that he loves you.well lets see it.Tell me, but show me.what ya say and do are too different thangs.lets see what ya got.ya know,, don't talk about it, be about it.$hit please.
@surpluscars (315)
• Philippines
25 Dec 06
being in love is getting hurt in the process...if you love him, you should be brave enough to admit it to yourself and to him.
@sam4san (61)
• India
25 Dec 06
I disagree wit the people who say love hurts.. if that is so.. driving for a race can take away ur life.. but the feel that lies beneath it.. can only be understood when u r in for it.
Before u even let a word out of ur mouth.. i wanna warn u. things might not go as u xpected, there might come some situations which u had never faced. well if u r really ready to take up all these.. if u r ready to overshadow these probs for the sake of that pinch of feel that lasts forever.. then go ahead.
Do remember.. there is no easy way for anything, be it love, life, succes.. u gotta go thru the probs and hurdles.. clear ?