love vs friendship
By rglodak
@rglodak (573)
Indonesia
December 24, 2006 10:24pm CST
a few times ago, i met a girl. she`s a nice and very kind to me. i admire her as one of my best friend. our friendship was just fine, until one day she told me that she had been in love with me. in fact, for about this time, she builds her encourage to tell it to me. help me to give her answer! she`s a nice girl, realy nice, but unfortunately she`s not my type. meanwhile, i just wanna her best friend, not more. please share ur opinion, how should i tell her that i just wanna be her best friend..
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110 responses
@midnyt_purplez09 (183)
• Philippines
25 Dec 06
What if you just take your time first and see if theres any possibility for you to love her. Just wondrin if that time comes maybe its too late for you... Why not give it a try and if it works out for you two, then everything will be ok...
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@kurpix (607)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 06
well, i guess there's nothing wrong if you tell her the truth that you just wanna had a great friendship with her. friendship is immortal than an emotional relationship. if you decide being her boyfriend, and one day you're had a split relation, what will happen? the friendship won't be able again, i think. so better if you have friendship than another.
beside that, she's not your type in what contains? physically well, i think yes. so, there's no reason to change your friendship into emotional relationship :)
just make sure that you won't hurt each other emotionally :) just consider her as one of your bes friend, and she'll do that too :D
@kurpix (607)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 06
well, try to make her understand with your decision without hurt her heart :) make her sure that your friendship is better than everything. it's a common situation if she will disappointed on the first, but i hope she will understand your decision.
anyway, if she's your really best friend, she will understand it. good luck!
@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
25 Dec 06
yes,i think you should tell her directly your thought and do not hert her.
@nilay29 (19)
• United States
26 Dec 06
Friend ship is forever but love is not.
So make friends as more as possible. But u cant make more lovers.
@subhadiproy (847)
• India
25 Dec 06
take ur time dude !! u might like her as a best fren now...b wid her few more days...u just might start feeling she s the one for u
@chiragvadher (83)
• India
25 Dec 06
well I think you should tell here as soon as possible before its too late.
Then let her decide.
@yasir2010 (284)
• Pakistan
25 Dec 06
tell her in suh a way that she dont break her heart u have to now prove that u r his best friend
@gaboy_ska (296)
• Philippines
25 Dec 06
I just had a couple of that experience buddy. And it all ended well, when i say well it means that we still are friends, bestfriends that is. I just had the guts to tell "them" that we are only up to the bestfriends level.
@sagirji (48)
• Pakistan
25 Dec 06
hi...i don't know wat u gonna do..but i think u shuld accept her offer n join her hands....coz hearts shuld never be broken..as broken hearts can never be mended n also it hurts a lot 2 victim..i hav passed in same situation(i:e i was in place of ur friend)...though frndship is better thing than luv still do it man...
@blueray_01 (236)
• India
25 Dec 06
in my point of view friendship is above love.so you have to be true to her u hav to tell your feelings to her as you can consider her as good friend.
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
10 Jan 07
You will have to sit her down and just tell her how you feel. Best friends can do that. You may hurt her,but it is better than letting this go on. Give her the choice to accept friendship or nothing.
@ExclusiveZia (669)
• India
25 Dec 06
Oh Wow... Almost same is with me... We are Good friends. But None of us Said I love You Yet :P
I think friendship is a kind of love... No matter if friends become wife & Husband. But friendship is more precious for me.
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
25 Dec 06
How much of a friend is she in any way. I say sleep with but keep on friends with benifit level.
@ck_n00r (38)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 06
i think u better tell her the truth that she is not ur type, and tell her to be friend with u only because friendship is greater than love... hope u can be yourself and be stronger to tell her the truth..
@doncris (637)
• Romania
3 Jan 07
honesty is always the best choice, even under the oddest circumstances!
take a grip and slam it in her face! that's the best you can do. she'll get over you eventually...life goes on....and if she really loves, like she says, then she'll continue to be your best friend..she just has to look and think about you in a different way
