Having a boy friend or a girl friend after marriage

It is ok, as long as ur wife agree. I have a couple of friend who managed to convince their wifes that it is ok for them to have a Girl friend.

there is no hard and fast rules as such. however, it's not desirable to have b'friends or g'friends in conventional sense of the term. this hampers true and proper functioning of the marrriage institution. we shoud not do or think in a way which would hurt us if it comes from our partners. friends of opposite genders are okay, but friendship beyond is not acceptable. this has very gruesome effects on children aswell. so, i feel, once we have decided on the fact of getting married we should NOT indulge in inappropriate things. little inappropriate things could lead to infidelity in the long run !! marriage is a lovely age old institution. it takes ages to build trust, bond and family but fraction of a second to break it...

I think that after you get out of a marriage, or one has ended with you, you need to go out and move forward. Most people don't have many problems, I think the major problems one may face are comparing your previous spouce to your new girlfriend/boyfriend, or thinking about your ex wife/husband, all the time when your with the other, that can get in the way... But there's no sence in being alone the rest of your life, you need to be happy too, and you need to be able to control your life the way you want it.. Dont' let anyone tell you you shouldn't have someone because your last relationship failed/ended. YOU need to be happy, Because it's YOUR life. Not theirs. Take care hun, Peace and love Blessed be.