How to Make love marriage Successful like never before

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Hello Friends! Let me first introduce you myself. My name is yagnesh chauhan and i am an Indian. I am a student looking forward to make my career ahead in MBA. Right now i am preparing my inventory so that i can Crack one of the toughest exams which is known as CAT. Well moving back to the major topic here ie. how to make love marriages successful. Well love marriage is such a wonderful thing and ofcourse the best and the wisest thing to do. You should always look around for your partner who is exclusively made for you. Sometimes you meet them easily and sometimes you have to work hard in finding them. But thats for sure that in this short life you meet that person for sure and come in touch wid them. I have seen many people saying that they dont want to fall in the love with anybody just coz the records shows us that very few love marriages are successful. Well there is a simple reason behind it. When you are in love and not married with anyone you give your best for your partner. This applies specially to guys. They give majority of their time to their sweethearts and also always keep on gifting them something or the other thing. may be sometimes flowers, sometimes their favourite choclates, etc. This nature of guys creates a hidden problem of future. I am not saying they are doing wrong but what happens after marraige is they are not able to give same amount of time and other gifts which they used to give to their girlfriends before so what happens is that their wife feels ignored sometimes just because they build up lots of expectations in their mind. T They expect their husbands still to give them same attention as they used to give before marriage which is usually not possible for guys for so many reasons sometimes. Some of the reasons are like he has so many responsibilities now, office work or tension and many more such things. Here is where the wifes should try and understand that now their husbands are not as they used to be before ie. without responsibilities and all as they used to be before. And husbands should also try to donate as much as time they can and try to be same as you were before marriage. TO understand this well on the otherside in the arranged one the wifes and husbands have never been in touch wid each other and thus there is no such expectations. THus even given a very little time to their wifes by their husbands is enough for their wives. even a small gift bought sometimes rarely is more than enough. THis is what creates the problem and is cause of unsuccessful love marraiges inspite of knowing each other to the best before marrige which is really very important if you want to marry someone.