discipline is inborn or jus jus gets developed as we grow

@swasti (1157)
India
December 26, 2006 7:48am CST
i see some people who really disciplined in their life and r quite successful i n maintaining that . i wonder if it is really inborn . i too liek to be disciplined in life but it is not so ...i can make it for some time...but afteer some i get back to normal way...which is i do what i like when i like.should i work hard to develop it??
2 responses
@5556970 (37)
• India
26 Dec 06
Disciplined depends on our personality.It can never be inbuilt but is developed.Ofcourse the way we are brought up and the surroundings in which we grew up are very important to develope a deciplined personality.Then again man is always growing up constantly.His growth does not end at a point.Once decipline is developed to an extent,it will try protect itself.But it can not protect itself from our will.Descipline come with self imposed rules and principles.So,discipline can never be imposed by someone on us.But it should be developed by the person himself.Its totally in our hands to be desciplined or not.I think Discipline can not be judged on small silly things we do.It is decided on the important decisions we make and the way we respond to difficult and vital situations.
@gsnarayanan (1704)
• India
26 Dec 06
It is to be developed by the parents.