Loyalty to one partner

I do believe but in case my partner is cheating me then i just do not care.This relationship is on complete trust and the onus falls on each one of us.

I do with all my heart, but we are no angels! I married my husband 17 years ago. I am 34 years old, he is 68 years old. I was 17 when I met him and with our difference of age, we have met numerous problems, in particular on an intime level. So, as adorable as he is, he agreed to give me a certain freedom. I have never abused it and I have never loved anyone else. I don't care about my lovers. It is only pure sport, so I don't feel unloyal. I would feel so if I was hiting something from my husband, but it has never been the case. This choice has no doubt permited our couple to stay very stable, and as I am growing older, I feel less and less need to go galavanting about, plus I love my husband even more for his trust in my love for him. That's a prove of love. I don't think I could actually accept what he has accepted for the love for me. I do believe in the institution of marriage, but I fully realise that it works fine in a perfect world. I haven't been there yet!

I do. And, I if I didn't, I wouldn't have made a commitment to my wife.

It's not about marriage itself, someone can have commitment to one person without a marriage, loyalty is not a contract, it's something people should have inside either married or not.