PND....Depression...

New Zealand
December 26, 2006 5:05pm CST
I have it....Although it developed from an underlying depression...It only became aparent after my baby was born....I didnt want anyone to know about my struggles so I hid it and battled on by myself....Which was silly it took about 3 months before I confided in my best friend and if it haddent been for her I dont think I would be here today!.....Share your stories of when you first saught help here...so hopefully we can inspire others to seek help before it is too late for them!
2 responses
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
30 Dec 06
After the birth of my son I had severe post natal depression (I think it actually started whilst I was pregnant to be honest. perinatal depression) I too didnt seek help immediately, even though I was pretty sure that was what I had, I kept tellin gmyself I'll shake it off, I can do this. But in the end I couldnt do it alone. I went to my gp, who sent me onto a psychologist and I ended up having a few counselling sessions and going on an antidepressant Zoloft for a few months. Ive been off for about a month now and I feel great. What treatment did you go through? I hate the misconception people often havve about pnd sufferers wanting to physically harm their children. I felt useless and unable to cope, and kind of indifferent to my son. Like I was just going through the motions- horrible as that sounds to me now. Not once did I think about touching a hair on his head, but as soon as you say postnatal, most people look at you cross eyed...
• New Zealand
30 Dec 06
I know what you mean!....I would never harm him....I was so scared that people would think I was a bad mother...thats why I didnt want to tell anyone!...Eventually I broke down and told my best friend and she rang the plunket nurse who came out and spent a couple of hours talking to me which was great!...I then went to my GP who prescribed me fluoxitine? (sp)..Im so glad I told someone and im so thankful of the support I received from my friend...(needless to say my mum wasnt supportive and my partner also has diagnosed depression - so he was indifferent)....
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
24 Oct 10
I use to manage depression, listening musiq, playing violen and i like chocolates, and i feel i get refreshed after having my chocolates. And best remedy is Meditation, try breathing exercise, it will help you balance and handle depression.