Office Life and Personal life can be mixed?

no it is normal, i know everything about my collegues too, and in this way, we come together closer. sometimes, people have to talk about their problems to feel better, and your boss seems to be one of them

It is better to avoid the mixing of office and personal life, though it is difficult to separate. I have known of cases where the husband has been at a lot of stress in his office and when he comes back he vents out his whole anger on his family. As such, the developement of his children are affected. And also his most important relationship with his life partner gets disturbed. Therefore try as hard as you can to separate the two.