how to make girlfriends
By dravid
@dravid (1047)
India
December 27, 2006 2:15am CST
Oh I have been thinking for a long how do people make girlfriend..Means I am really very confused abouyt this fact....I will share somthing .....It was when I was in college..I really loved a girl cared for her and wanted to give her the best i could.....she just rejected me and went with a bou who was a jerk...i dont know why.....then gain i did't wanted girl and then she came and approched me ....she was good looking...hai what is this....i still cannot understant the dynamics of girls....can som1 say somthing
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@adnan007 (1083)
• India
27 Dec 06
having a girlfiernd is not some sort of commodity that we must have. not because your friends already have many girlfriends would mean that you NEED to have one or even more also.
having a girlfriend is not a question that needs to be answered. it just come in its own time. it comes in the time that we least expect.
just enjoy your life now. no commitment...no responsibility...never rush in falling in love for true love never runs out.. just wait for it to come...maybe God is preparing her now, the same way he is preparing you.
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@natuser28 (907)
• United States
27 Dec 06
I agree with u. why chain urself to her purse when u can enjoy life.
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@hackedmind (271)
• India
28 Dec 06
let me tell u one thing girls don't go with sober boys ....when u care for them they will say u r a good friend
they want a friend who can do romace , flirt and can make them laugh or say they can use them...........best of lcuk
@simplegal (123)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
she just don't like you so you better look for someone else who will apprecite the things you do and love you for what you are.
@shadow9 (238)
• Romania
27 Dec 06
hmmm ... ok has any boy ever understood a girl??? :P ... u can't always have what you want ... to have a girlfriend you must have something in common and feel confortable whit each other ... it's really a psichological thing ... if you really want a girl you must understant the way she is and show her what she wants to see ... theres not just one way ... u can't dress somehow and boom all the girls will like you ... you must dress how she would like it ... don't take advice from other girls that don't know her if she says that she likes it because all humans are diferent ... if one of her best friends gives you some advice maybe you should try it but it wount always work ... you should find a girl that likes you the way you are because if not than theres lots of work involved ... u must change alot and it's not garanteed to last to long ... if you want a girlfriend than find the right one ... one that you can actually talk to and have fun with ... not one that ignores you or whit witch you have to talk about stuf that you don't like or do stuf that you would not normaly do
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@schummi (924)
• India
27 Dec 06
welll..thats life for you.we always get wat we dont desire much but wat we desire its hard to get.and teh girls are fools to just look for some money in guys rather than any qualities so i just leave them to their position and never bother about them .one thing is sure man that if you love someone then you shouild definetly get her .
@dravid (1047)
• India
31 Dec 06
man i beliveu are wrong...acutually they are not after money ....one thing that money might bring into us is some amout of extra confidance and might show some higher DHV I.E DEMONSTRATION OF HIGHER VALUES...dat is the girls like...some pople who can shoe they are people of higher status they will fall
@jen20619 (1300)
• Ireland
27 Dec 06
Yes some girls perfer the bad guy.Its only when they have been in a relationship with a bad guy that then they want the nice guy.I was once into the bad guy but now I older and wiser I know better.Dont change been a nice guy you will meet a girl that will appreciate it.
@dravid (1047)
• India
28 Dec 06
hai dat is gr8 may be we can help each other.....and the stuff just be usrelf is very difficult for us boys and specially when the girl is very beautiful..but u kow beauty should not be the fact of consideration but the hart and the purity of the soul waht say...any discussion from u would be great
@dravid (1047)
• India
28 Dec 06
hai dat is gr8 may be we can help each other.....and the stuff just be usrelf is very difficult for us boys and specially when the girl is very beautiful..but u kow beauty should not be the fact of consideration but the heart and the purity of the soul waht say...any discussion from u would be great
@rajendra1977 (57)
• India
27 Dec 06
iam verymuch interested in this topic. i would like to say one thing "when u make a girl friend, one should keep it in mind that the relation should be a good one or you should not see the gender(oerticularly for youngsters). if you are not controlled person some friendships make your "ship" titl upside down.
be careful.
@hassanchop (820)
• United States
30 Dec 06
You make girlfriends by being your own man. NEVER pander and cater to her like a slave just because she's a woman. Be your own man. Girls get turned off when guys are too nice - they want guys to have a bit of that edge about em, that independence.
@arighnacool02 (5)
• India
27 Dec 06
cool topic buddy!!!!!n confusing too!!!!!!!really its hard to understand the dynamics of girls!!!!!!keep on investigating!!!!!!if u come to know pls let me be informed!!! i ll be waiting eagerly !!!
@nizamcollegestudent (60)
• India
27 Dec 06
Hi friend, it's not only your question mine and also a number of guys. We can't understand them. A joke is there about girl that is girl means nothing but "Ghost In Real Life".
@bimmer999 (1158)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
well as a start you should just be yourself
do not act like someone else or alter your personality
if the girl will like you and your personality then you have a good chance of being her girlfriend
if she doesnt want you, you'll know by her response
just try it