Dead beat babies Daddies!!!

honestly, if ever i get pregnant and the father does not care about the fact that he's gonna be a father soon, i won't force him to be responsible just because of the situation. i will take care of the baby, supper the baby financially, physically and emotionally. i will be a good mother to her/him even if the father seems not to exist at all. and if i get to meet him one day while walking with my baby, i'll smile and whisper to him: thank you for the baby! goodbye!

Thank God he left and is out of your life..my advice to you is to work hard and bring your child up on your own. Provide lots of care adn attention. Now is not the time for court orders and other men to disrupt. Children who are well nurtured by single parents feel in no way inadequate. You kno what could haev been worse. the dad being around and still not providing so hatred builds and affect your child for life.Move on sweetie. You can do it.

dont say anything to this guy i would take him to court for child support so he can fill his finacial responcibility.he will have no choice if it is court ordered.I know some guys who go and make babies and then leave like they do not exist it is awful.myex has 13 kids that he has done this to which is horrible.your son does not need a dad like this he has a mom that has been there for him and that loves him.

As a guy, I just cant understand why a husband would do something like that. It blows my mind to think that someone would walk out on his own flesh and blood. Let me also maybe mention the flip side here. Its not only men who walk out on their families, women can also do that although Im sure its statistically much less prevelant. But I think one should be careful to coin a term like that in this day and age, rather make it an asexualy/non-gender based term.

my dad left us when i was 11 because he wanted to start his damn life with someone else. my mother was like my all time hero because she was able to support all 6 children and was able to sent us to good universities. i owe everything to my mom. i think that if my mom and my dad stayed together, i might got married earlier or my life went to a blistering hell... i know that my life is not really complete because i never had a dad around. and i will blame him for the rest of my life. but as what i have learned from my experience is that if the father doesn't want you... the hell with him... you are better off taking care of your children by yourself than to force yourself to a selfish brat. your children would be much unhappier and suffer more... just get that monthly support that you need from him but don't include him in your life. you deserve a much better man.

Well any man whodoesn'ttake care ofhisresponsiility isn't a man.sometimes the menthink they are hurting the childs mother but they actually only hurt the children.

Get a paternity test and file child support. I wouldnt want someone in my childs life that didnt want to be there. But he did help make the baby, and I'd want his money to take care of my kids.

I had said it before on my lot and I will say it again. What is this world coming to?

I would think that if a parent could do that, then the chances are that your child is better off without them.... Just get as much money out of him as you can!

i personally have no idea what your going through but men like this is beyond sorry.i think they should pass some kind of law if a man don't take care of his child he has to get fixed to prevent that from happening again.lol

you can make him pay support or you can get amancpation from him were he gives up all rights to the child.frist you have to go to court to get anything done.get a lawyer or a fed.aid one.take him to court

If he is not willing to be a part of your children's life then they are better off without him. It is a sad thing that a persn would do this to their own children but it happens all the time. Is he supporting them financially at least? If he isn't you should contact prosecutors office and they can get him to pay support.

I'm not sure the route to take, but social services can get the money from his paychecks if he won't pay it on his own... If he's this worthless and deadbeat, just try to find yourself a man who's worth a cobbler's damn, and move on.

yeah these daddies can be also called moving sperm banks lol well they have their own priorities.. at least you didnt force him to stay for his kid :)

Im sorry to hear this. You and your child deserve more. I totally fail to understand how a man can ignore his own offspring.

i think good parent decesen baby best child.

some time

My oldest daughters father came to her 1st birthday party and that was it. We lived in Georgia at the time and his father was a judge and it was like pulling teeth to get child support from him. Small little Georgia towns can be very, very crooked. Well, I moved to Florida soon after and Florida could care less what your Daddy does for a living. They went after him, they took money from his check when he wasn't working under the table, and locked him up when he got too far behind. I would always know when had been locked up because I wouldn't get any money for awhile, and then boom a big check would come. You need to go down right away to your Child Support Recovery Unit, and apply. That way there will be an order in place and you can go back to it through the years when need be.My daughters father never had anything to do with her, and she hates him to this day. She tried to call him on his birthday once years ago and he hung up on her. I never let that happen again, and if I had been in Georgia at the time someone would of had to bail me out of jail. You don't mess with my children, ever! Your child deserves to be taken care of!! Make him play his part financially if nothing else.

My daughter's father is a deadbeat. We were together for 4 years before we had her and then 2 1/2 years after she was born and when I split up with him he didn't want to see her anymore. I went after him for child support but the state doesn't seem to try hard enough to collect money unless the woman is on welfare and the man has to pay them back as well. After fighting a long time he went to jail several times and eventually decided he wanted to terminate his rights so he didn't have to pay me, which was fine because that would get him out of my life. I met a wonderful man who wanted to adopt my daughter but he unfortunately passed away 6 months ago. My daughters father read in the paper about my fiancee dying and called me to see if he could see my dughter who is now 10 and I said yes and he blew her off twice...made plans and never showed up !!! How could someone do that after she just lost the only father figure she ever had????? They don't change, once a deatbeat always a deadbeat!

This happends all the time My daughter had a baby and her guy did not even go to the hospital when he was born.He never wants to see him.He is 17 months now. He did pay some child support but quit,if thats the way he wants to be ,it is just fine with me now.I wonder if these men ever think about that they have a child,I dont know what goes through there heads.