chatmate
By shilpa28k
@shilpa28k (1737)
India
December 28, 2006 1:13am CST
I'm starting to fall for my chatmate. Should I end chatting with him or tell him my feelings?
8 responses
@abhiroop85 (2826)
• Scottsdale, Arizona
28 Dec 06
just whatever you want,i mean listen to your heart,but think atleast once,is it ok to trust anyone by just chatting,in this time ,when we hardly get a real friend
@purpleravenhawk (81)
• United States
28 Dec 06
Sorry to say this, but I haven't seen a relationship that started online yet that lasted for very long. It just doesn't work. You're better off finding a way to get over it and just be friends. If you don't think you can, it would be best to end it.
@shilpa28k (1737)
• India
28 Dec 06
Thanks for your response. Thanks dude, I will really think of it before taking next step.
@swappankumar (395)
• India
28 Dec 06
falling with chat mate is common ,you can continue ,if you really love him or can stay with him,if its just an attraction than i think you should stop .but dont keep your feelings with youy let him know what u think about him/
@shilpa28k (1737)
• India
28 Dec 06
Thanks for your response. Thanks dude, I will really think of it before taking next step.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
28 Dec 06
Have you actually met face to face yet? I am not against online romances etc but sometimes the anonymity the chat method provides allows people to be more open than face to face? There are many factors that contirbute to a successful relationship and although communication is high on the list it is not the be all and and all of a successful rrelationship.....
@shilpa28k (1737)
• India
28 Dec 06
Thanks for your response. No I have not meet him face to face. I have seen his photo and we even talk on phone everyday. But I will really think of it before taking next step.
@maldita_me (281)
• Philippines
29 Dec 06
i'm not sure about that. I've been chatting for several years and until now i haven't found someone who is sincere and honest. Maybe you should think things over first
@srinathakarapu (3093)
• India
29 Dec 06
if ur commited or married then i dont think you need to ask for such a question i suppose u r not so u may express your feeling but trust is the one pillar on which a relationship stands so chek out how much do u trust him. in general online love is not trustworty so becarefull before you leap
@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
28 Dec 06
I have been experiencing that, but I think it depends to the person..well If Im not committed to someone maybe 'till now we were chat mate but I cut it before I forgot.