I need your help please!
By superhiiro
@superhiiro (496)
United States
December 28, 2006 2:09am CST
i bet some of you know from my other discussions that my gf broke up with me. During this time, i talked to a good friend of mine and she helped me thru it. ive known this girl for 5 years and we have become very good friends. i hung out with her sometimes in order to forget about my ex gf. but for some reason....while trying to forget...i started to gain emotions for this friend of mine...and i dont kno if its because im trying to forget or if its really a strong feeling i have for her. is this a right choice? i went out with my ex gf for a year and 2 months...and its hard to let go. i sorta feel guilty for liking someone else now since my ex gf told me that it was sorta a break and that we might get back together. what should i do?
6 responses
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
12 Jan 07
i think that you may be vulnerable from the break up and you are still feeling confused...dont mixed up the feeling...it may not be your true feeling...give it more time to heal the wound and once you are back on track, analyse your feeling for this friend.
@superhiiro (496)
• United States
28 Jan 07
thanks. yeah ive given it some thought now. i dont really like anyone anymore. im just going to see how it goes...
@sukiwillbe (218)
• India
31 Dec 06
The best person who could answer this could me only u... But If i were in your situation I would think thru who would give me more emotional stability and who will be with me when I am in trouble and then will be with her..
This criteria is the same for a husband, for frnd... for any strong relationship :)
@superhiiro (496)
• United States
31 Dec 06
thanks!! yeah...its been a few days since i posted this discussion. and my feelings for my ex are coming back again. and i think she will give me more of what i need than the friend i like. but i am not completely sure...i am wayy too confused right now.
@hiteshnihalani (2121)
• India
30 Dec 06
thank you for creating such a great discussion..
my advice is to talk to her..
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
30 Dec 06
Nobody can answer this question for you my friend. You spent a long time with your ex, and are lonely and vunerable now. Your friend of 5 years is there for you now. It may or may not be a rebound.
I can only suggest that you take your time, and don't let your homones get ahead of you. Use your head...time will work it out. Good luck dear.
@superhiiro (496)
• United States
30 Dec 06
thanks. that really helps. ill try to make a good decision.
@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
28 Dec 06
This isn't surprising. You were in a very vulernable state emotionally so you grew attached to the person that you were opening up to. I think you should tell her. This could be a rebound relationship so be careful. You shouldn't feel guilty though. You can't help the way you feel.
