how u control ur anger??????

India
December 28, 2006 2:02pm CST
does meditation helps?/
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9 responses
@padhukr (2267)
• India
29 Dec 06
control anger for meditation.
@umerasif (532)
• Pakistan
29 Dec 06
Well I dont get angry too often. I am a patient guy. But when I get angry then for sure all hell breaks lose. The best thing that I have seen to control my anger is to breath in and out and count from 1 to 10 and then backwards. By the time I am done with the routine my anger decreases quite alot and I am composed once more. Meditation does help because in meditation you tell your self to behave in a certain manner and then given the situation you unconsciously act out what ever you have programmed yourself to do.
@artguy (1474)
• United States
28 Dec 06
I control my anger by getting away from whatever is making me angry, or sometimes by venting to a friend. You have to let anger out some way. If you keep it bottled up it can make you physically sick.
• India
28 Dec 06
I'll say.. if you are short tempered, then you must do meditation.. It helps you to realize the aner and you can control it.. as you'll be above the situation and i a better position to justify your anger. You'll be angry if it is really necessary...
28 Dec 06
meditation helps but not at the point you are angry. practicing meditation everyday does help in curbing it to some extent. I suggest you get into some task which involve you to use a lot of force like dusting the house, digging the garden so this way you channelize the negative force to complete your daily chores.
@tmansoor0 (206)
• Qatar
28 Dec 06
Well i don't normally get angry and when someone does iannoy me i try to pass it as a joke. When it gets really bad then i seclude myself from all for sometime and when it cools down, i am back to normal again. Life is short and there is not time to be wasted by getting angry on others.
@kutchi (12320)
• Pakistan
28 Dec 06
Most of the times I keep quit to control my anger
• United States
28 Dec 06
i stay by myself and listen to music
• United States
28 Dec 06
I take a walk and get some air it helps me a lot.