How do you feel about Home School for your children?

United States
December 28, 2006 3:19pm CST
These days it seems hard for a child to get an education without a lot of distractions or problems. I took my children out of public school because of 'gang related' problems and taught them home school ... something I said that 'I would NEVER do' but it paid off and they graduated with honors and have great jobs today. Did you OR would you consider home school for your children?
8 responses
@srhelmer (7029)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
28 Dec 06
If I had the time, I would probably do it. The plan now is to send her to school but spend time with her to make sure she's learning.
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• United States
28 Dec 06
That's cool, sometimes it doesn't pan out for parents to home school their children. If it were to work out for you in the future it's something you would never regret ;-)
• United States
29 Jan 07
It's unfortunate how society is today. As such things are really hard to homeschool. Hopefully you're daughter will be fine at school. Brenda Marie Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/ My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
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• United States
28 Dec 06
I was homeschooled myself, and I think it turned out well for me. I would probably consider it for my own children if I felt I had the time and energy to do it. Whether or not it works depends on the effort the parents are willing to put into it.
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• United States
28 Dec 06
That is awesome for you. You're absolutely correct, it does depend on the effort of the parents more than anything else ;-)
@bam001 (940)
• United States
30 Dec 06
I am in support of home-school in most instances. I would want to make sure that the instruction was quality level and that math and science are taught at a level to enable to student to get into college.
• United States
30 Dec 06
The quality of instruction is a very good point ;-) Most home school cirriculum is in line with the Board of Education nowadays so it's easier to get kids through school with a valid diploma so they can begin their career.
• United States
30 Dec 06
Today's schools are really scarey. I don't like them and will never put my daughter into one of them. She's never gone to anything more than preschool for a year. (That's an entirely different story though.) She's doing quite well here at home. She not only is a grade level ahead but is learning how to function in the real world: how to manage a home, understanding what it means to have a job, etc. I think she's excelling while the friends she has who are her same age are not doing as well because they're in public schools.
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• United States
30 Dec 06
I couldn't agree with you more, and in addition to that I truly believe that kids are able to interact with other kids even tho they aren't in public schools. There are many different clubs out there for kids that are in home school so kids are able to interact with each other. Kids interacting with other kids seems to be a 'big deal' with a lot of people but actually in an academic environment that should be the least of our worries where our kids are concerned. There are many other places for kids to interact with each other, other than a classroom environment.
• United States
26 Jan 07
You're so right. I don't understand where the thinking that we send our children to school to socialize comes from when in fact they are lucky if they have an hour a day to actually socialize. On the other hand, my homeschooled daughter has social activities planned for her 6 out of 7 days a week. I'm not going to go into adding up hours but you can obviously see that she gets tons more opportunity to socialize than institutionalized school children do. Brenda Marie Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/ My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
• United States
26 Jan 07
I have decided that I would homeschool my new baby once she gets up to that age. My oldest daughter is not homeschooled and goes to public school, but she lives in Ohio and goes to a really great school in the county that she lives in. The reason for me wanting to homeschool this one is so I can make sure that she is learning what she is supposed to. Plus, the schools here in Florida are rated really bad.
• United States
26 Jan 07
You do have a point... Some school districts really cannot be trusted to teach our children what they need to learn and it's really a shame that more people aren't able to homeschool in such cases. Brenda Marie Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/ My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
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@cjthedog64 (1552)
• United States
29 Jan 07
I went to a good public school and thought it was fine. We bought our house in an area with good schools, and I planned on sending DS there. But after having him, and after dealing with all sorts of issues with my stepkids and school, and all the stuff you read nowdays, I'm really hoping to be able to homeschool him. There's so much that I want for him to learn. He's 13 months and already very bright. He loves his books and I don't imagine any problems teaching him to read, etc. I don't want to have to worry about him being bored or not learning what he should know, because the school thinks he has to take a certain schedule every day.
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• United States
29 Jan 07
That is exactly how I feel as well. My dd is 5 and in second grade already. I let her go and she does so much learning on her own. I'm very glad that I chose to homeschool her because I know for a fact she'd be bored in school. Good luck to you and your family! Brenda Marie Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/ My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
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@babs0818 (1191)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I am looking into homeschooling my kids myself.I think,that they would benefit a lot from getting an education from home.I just haven't gotten myself to get the whole process started.
• United States
30 Dec 06
Way cool! When the time comes that you are doing home school with your kids and you have any questions just let me know ... I would be happy to help ;-)
@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
29 Dec 06
There's a lot of scary stuff in the schools and it's an interesting option to homeschool children. I applaud those who do it. Knowing myself and my limitations, I do not think I would be a good person to do it. What we have done is bite the bullet and tighten our belts to send our son to private school. It doesn't eliminate the risks of public school, but it does minimize them in my opinion. My biggest concern about homeschooling is that the kids would not have the same opportunity to build friendships with kids their own age. The school my son is going to is kindergarten through high school and so he'll know these kids quite well by the time it's all done. I have already noticed a difference in him and me as children. I stayed home with my mother until I went to kindergarten and I was very shy and tentative around people until many years later. My son went to daycare while I was still working full time and gets along so well with people. He's very outgoing and friendly and I admire this so much in him. I'm glad he has had opportunity to be around so many different kids since he was a baby.
• United States
30 Dec 06
Private school is another good option. Wish I would have thought about that back when my kids were in school. It would have made my life easier, but then again ... I don't regret doing home school with my kids either. It was quite an experience being their teacher though LOL and I'm not sure that I could do it again if I had to :-O LOL