which is important to have a good friend or a loving life partner?

As much as most of us want love, marriage and all that good stuff, a good friend would have to be my choice. The way I see it, you can have a good friend w/o them being a loving life partner, but you can't have a loving life partner unless they are also a great friend. I think most married people would agree that your partner is your best friend.

i dont know my self those two things have advatages and disadvantages: I think a loving life partener woul dbe good because you know it's all our for the rest of your life, but someytimes they can be less understanding than the rest, good friends are good but they may dissapear and suddenly chang or be gone so i dont know myself too...