To Post Or Not To Post

i'm like you as well, my priority will always to respond to my friends discussion..however, i will never respond to any discussion that i dont know and dont have anything to add on. i think you are doing great here..and if everyone is doing exactly like you...that's the spirit of friendship in here! i have deleted a lot of friends in my profile as they dont bother to respond to any of my discussions but kept on starting discussions...well, i dont need on way friendship...

I respond to all sorts of posts but I don't expect my mylot friends to respond to all of my discussions. I would go with what you feel most comfortable with since there are many people here on mylot that might respond to the discussions that you don't feel you can add to

i think my friend wont feel i ignoring them if they posting new topic discussion and i dont post my response to there. coz why i should post my response if the topic discussion not too interesting to response? i m here coz i enjoying mylot not only searching money, so for me its not too neccessary to post our response in our friend's topic if its not interesting

I will post on friends questions as often as I can but if I haven't got anything constructive to say, I usually jnust leave it. But then, I have got a lot of friends on here and several of them post a lot so there will usually be something within their discussions where I can comment, I don't think there is any need to comment on things where I'm neither interested nor useful just because they happen to be my friends questions. Of course, I want my friends to do well but there are plenty of other people on here who have good questions. If I had the time to answer everybody's then I probably would!

since i have very little friends (3), i don't really know what i would do. but think about it, if your friend posted a discussion what you are not interested in, i see no point to respond. if you respons to it and have no knowledge and involvement, you will give a bad answer. i would rather prefer no answer than a bad answer. thats just my opinion, others may think differently.

Hm...Maybe you should post if this helps you friend...You can post and say that you don't know so much about that subject...and other things.

I always try to find at least one topic I can post to for a friend. That is not always possible so I try back again the next day. I am thinking of deleting some of my useless friends too.

I feel like if you have nothing constructive to say, say nothing. Why waste valuable discussion space saying,"Sorry, I haven't seen that movie or read that book". I then try to find a discussion by them that I can add too. You get more points by actually adding to the discussion than just taking up space. Just because you are on my friends list, doesn't mean I won't give you a negative for a non-contributory response.

i never reply to any of my friends posts and i dont ever make any friends on my own here.when they approach me its ok.i accept and still now nobody has ever replied to my discussion.i am not offended nor am i angry.but i must say i should not from any expectations from them nor should they because replying to any topic is exclusively on my interest and i am here not to please anybody.i am here to enjoy and i do that by participating in interesting topics,not what do had for dinner tonight?etc etc kind of topics.everybody in here post for their pleasure and definitely not for pleasing others.if you have to keep friendship,well send them messeges,communicate with them,thats it.i know most of you people would get angry at my post but i have told what is genuine to me.thanks

I used to do the same as you. Review the new discussions which my friends have started and give a response to them because they are my friends. Also I find that some of my friends really do the same as me. The post a response to almost all of my discussions. But now I feel that it is not easy to keep up with it as my friends become more and more. And I also find that there are some topics which I really have little knowledge and can't give a resonable response. So I don't try to response all the discussions my friends started. I choose the topics I am interested and have some knowledge, because I don't wanna to post some usless responses. I think my friends would understand me. Maybe they also have the same idea. Happy new year!

One of the things about being a writer is that working on a topic you don't particularly enjoy brings out the creativity in you. I've found that I've been posting on all sorts of topics in the last few days. The only ones I tend to leave alone are those that don't seem to be a topic in the first place.

Friend we should be true to our friends .you can responed them by saying i have no idea about this.if he is a friend he doesnt take nothing.If you dont have intrest thats your whish noboys hurt my friend.

I believe this is a great way to get friends to make each other feel like they care about each other.

Well first of all, maybe your friends are pretty new to here! Like myself I am still finding my way around. And honestly how many actually read the terms and conditons??? I did and Im still trying to put my head around some of the things they told us we are to do!?!?! I will do my very best to answer my frieds posts, but if it is not in my field or area, then I would at least just say that I have read it and also say I have no comment to add. That way they know that you are reading them!

I wouldn't even dream to post something that I have no interest in or knowledge. I prefer to use my opinions in a right way. If friends know that then friends trully they are. For example I have no inteest in cricket, in football or basketball. What should I write? "Sorry, not interested!" ? I prefer to pass that one.

I usually try responding to my friends' posts, however, I don't have a lot of online time. I don't have time to respond to every discussion from every one of my friends. Therefore, I try to respond to at least one of each of my friends discussions when I do get a chance to get online. Hopefully, they will all be understanding about why you are not responding to every single discussion they make.

I think this is not the way to post in their profiles.

I do agree with this point. I too regularly try to post responses for my friends. This is the only way to get loyal responses to your post and earn more money. But sometimes are friends put us in dilemna with meaningless discussions. Hope the standard in mylot and particularly in our friends group will improve.

Friends can easily misjudge u if u dont reply

Yeh i think thats nice of you to reply to friends even if you dont like the topic. Its a way let them know that someone is behind them. It sounds to me as if you know the true value of friendship. Keep it up.