you discover your wonderful one year old.....

Terribly hard decision to make, I recently thought it about it myself when it featured on TV in a drama, although the child was older (13/14). Being a one-year old you could almost just 'swap' them back, but I think alot of bonding would of been made already.

i would love to see my actual bay where abouts,let the other who have my baby know about it...but still wont give the one i have.

I know it happens in real life but if same thing happens to me, I probably wont change the baby. I would love to be part to my real baby and I would love to the other couple to be part of my baby. Since I raised one year old as my baby, I dont think I can let him/her go. Parents probably have to make some arrangement to see the kids.

I also would not correct the terrible mistake, you would love that child as your own, but I do not have any children myself and a mother would be able to answer this question honestly.