Soulmates?
By tictac714
@tictac714 (975)
United States
4 responses
@acosjo (1903)
• Canada
30 Dec 06
I don't believe there is only one person out there. I think the one you find is the one you were meant to be with (destiny).
I think you're only limited to people that are in close vicinity to you. Would you believe that somewhere in another country there is a person that is right for you? I think so. If I lived in California or New York or Vancouver, I'm sure there is at least one person that I would be a good match for, and would be a good match for me. However, I think destiny is what decides who you eventually end up with. Your geographics for sure plays a part in it.
If you went on a trip to another country and found the one, I think that is destiny, same if you stay in your home city and meet someone, and maybe meeting someone over the internet (I'm always going to feel uneasy about meeting someone over the internet, but I guess it has been done before, and will coninue).
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@tictac714 (975)
• United States
30 Dec 06
I basically agree with you. I think a lot of it has to do with being at the right place at the right time, or destiny, really.
But I think that there is potentially a number of people out there who you could fall in love with.
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
31 Dec 06
It's tough to say. No two people are 100% perfect for each other. Also, it isn't just on looks alone. Some of the longest-lasting relationships, well, the two people were either not at all impressed when they first met or did not like each other at first.
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@tictac714 (975)
• United States
31 Dec 06
hehe that's a good point, that's sort of like my boyfriend and I. He asked me out a whole bunch of times where I turned him down before we actually got together.
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@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
1 Jan 07
No, I don't believe in soulmates. I would like to because it sounds romantic. A perfect partner, prepared for you and handed to you in a silver platter? wow! Nah! I still believe that falling in love is an act of the will, a choice and a decision to make after evaluating our feelings and options. Some people fall in love with a fire-exit mentality that if the relationship falls apart they can still go out and say "you are not my soulmate". Someone out there is prepared for me, I gotta find him/her. Falling in love is making a committment that whatever happens we will stand together.
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