Do you like changes? Can you handle them?

i like change in my life because monotonous life make our life so dull but these changes must be good for us not harmfull to us

I am resistant to change too. For some reason it makes me uncomfortable until I get use to it, even if it is a good change.

They say change is inevitable and the only thing permanent in the world. Philosophically it may be right. But change is painful. Human beings resist change tooth and nail. the reason, any new area is alien and unknown. We are scared of unknown as the proverb says 'known devil is better than an unknown angel'.But we need to change . All progress in the world was because of change right from the discovery of wheel on wards. Present generation is more adaptable to change since they see drastic changes now. Change management is a hot topic now in modern management concept. I am reminded of the best seller '"Who moved my cheese" . change is good and inevitable and i personally am very adaptable and not scared of changes.

Unexpected happenings can be good or bad. The mosta exciting one is the good unexpected chnage which is rally blissful. However coping up with the bad unexpected happeningsmight take some time, pain, embarassment --unexplainable emotions. It takes a lot of time to pvercome this circumstances.

If the changes seems to be in positive manner ofcourse everyone likes it but if the change is in negative manner then ofcourse it is difficult to handle them.

change can be both good or bad, it doesnt bother me much it just take me some time to adjust to it, after that i am fine, unless it is something bad that i have to change to, other wise i am ok with any kind of change, you should face change head on like challange , you can come out on top at the end.

i am from the philippines and i will soon move to sweden with my boyfriend and start a life with him. i am not scared but more excited of started a new life there. i do think i can easily cope with the changes since i know my boyfriend will help me out with the culture differences.

Life it´s like a roller coaster, as upside downs all the time, it´s a matter of time till you understand that and then it would be easier to you to get over.

Hi...i like things changing...i like sudden surprises i even feel that i can manage them too...i just go with them whatever happens...i do not feel embarrassed but i handle them....i do not feel for them....if anything goes or happens which does not matches with my imaginations i do not feel for them but just go with them.....

yes i like thm and i can handle thm

Changes make us STRONGER.. believe me....! CHANGE is LIFE ! u cant possibly expect everything .. u cant predict everything right !!!!!!!! so try to accept the changes n win over it.. life is a riddle.. try to solve it.. when ots done ..u will jus love ur life !!! though i sound more like a ADVICE.. u wont believe me until u realise it practically !!! N for sure its hard to handle some unexpected problems ...! ;)

thanks for that response... about me and my ex... i think that changes are soooooo great... its a part of life... no matter how weird it may get... just go for it! it can be a great adventure:)

nah i cant handle da changes... its too hard to just to handle to changes.. and i dont like da changes...

I can remember when I was in college, I was required to take a course entitled, "Change Theory." At the time I thought, how crazy this is, to study change and peoples reacations to change. Twenty-five years later, I realize that change is a very upsetting thing for most people and to be able to assist people through change (especially a traumatic change) is a very important task. It seems we become very comfortable with a routine. When our routine is upset for any reason, we become uneasy and insecure. I am of the belief however, that some change is good for us, as it helps us grow. I think many would never venture out of their 'comfort zone' if left to their desires. Change sometimes forces us out of that comfort zone! We then learn that we DO have the internal resources to deal with the new situation and voila, we have grown!

no i can never handle changes i love the way the things are i really hate something changing especially in my house