Would you tell your best friend if her man was cheating on her?
By unlimited7
@unlimited7 (92)
United States
December 30, 2006 11:37am CST
This is such a thin line for me. Because most women will not do anything about it anyway. Then the guy is mad at you because of course, she just had to let him know who told her.
I don't know if it's worth it. I told a cousin about seeing her man cheating and the scenario carried out the same as the above.
Have you ever been in this situation? What did you do? Would you ever tell?
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2 responses
@Katpet (215)
• Kenya
2 Jan 07
I have never been in this situation but if such happens, i can inform my best friend, but in a style. If i know the meeting point of her man with somebody else, if it happens regularly, i can tell my friend that we walk through that direction, without telling her the reason for using that route. Then she can witness for herself, and the guy will not include me in his being caught red handed but will take it as a coincidence. I will then explain to my friend in details, that is after she has seen for herself.
@unlimited7 (92)
• United States
3 Jan 07
That's definitely one way to get it done. I just wonder if you weren't able to help your friend catch him in the act, would you tell your friend or would you just keep it to yourself.
Thanks for sharing. Good idea.
@Bunny2 (2102)
• Australia
6 Jan 07
This is a tough one. You might risk your friendship, but in the end you are only telling her the truth. I think it would hurt more for you to take her where her man is meeting with someone else - for her to see it would be a real shock. of course you telling her would also be a shock but you can prepare her and tell her that you have some very disturbing news.
Persoanlly I would do it that way - "I have some very disturbing news" and I want you to sit down. And tel her as gently as possible.
