Are you and your lover best friends?
By MySpot
@MySpot (2600)
United States
September 27, 2006 10:46pm CST
I've always felt that a great friendship is the best way to build a great relationship...
Take the test and share your results here on myLot!
http://quizstop.com/askfrnd.htm
Here are my results: Lucky you. The evidence suggests that you and your lover are the best of friends. This fact can only add to your mutual happiness in life, by enriching it daily. In other words, personal attachment forms a large part of your earthly togetherness. Be very happy. Deep friendship is the Last Refuge of the Soul against Eternity.
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10 responses
@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
18 Nov 06
The evidence suggests that you and your lover are NOT best friends. This does not necessarily mean that you are bitter enemies, but it could hint that a certain depth and richness from your alignment may be missing. Romance is always great, of course...if you have it. But deep friendship is the Last Refuge of the Soul against Eternity.
i dodn't need a test to tell you that...i am not sure weather is good or wrong,but it's the reality..my boyfriend is not my best fruend as much as i tried...it doesn't mean i don't love him or that i don't think he loves me..it only means that maybe we all have our inner thoughts that are better left unsaid,as they are not of a great importance ..or maybe i am just finding excuses...no matter the situation..i could have said it myself..my lover it's just my lover and my friend but not my best friend
@MySpot (2600)
• United States
19 Nov 06
Well, friendship is developed over time and best friends are truly a blessing because although you may not be seeking, you find a mutual understanding and connection that is everlasting... I think that maybe you and your boyfriend are still in the developemental stage and have every hope of becoming the best of friends.
I am with my hubby for 17 years now and we started out as friends. He is my best friend in the World now. It took a deeper level of communication and understanding to evolve into more than just friends or lovers. Keep working at it cuz the rewards are the greatest!
@maya_n_bennett (4687)
• United States
28 Sep 06
Here is my result.
-Lucky you. The evidence suggests that you and your lover are the best of friends. This fact can only add to your mutual happiness in life, by enriching it daily. In other words, personal attachment forms a large part of your earthly togetherness. Be very happy. Deep friendship is the Last Refuge of the Soul against Eternity
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
19 Nov 06
The evidence suggests that you and your lover are NOT best friends. This does not necessarily mean that you are bitter enemies, but it could hint that a certain depth and richness from your alignment may be missing. Romance is always great, of course...if you have it. But deep friendship is the Last Refuge of the Soul against Eternity.
It told me what I already know. My husband does not believe that husband and wife can be best friends. Not sure why because we were friends before dating.
@akotalagato (1334)
• Philippines
19 Nov 06
nope. but we have a great relationship all the same. me and lover's sister are bestfriends though. lol. i guess that in some way that helped. we have so much in common and we hit it off almost instantly. although we do argue sometimes, but i guess that makes the relationship more colorful and lively.
@blackdogpotter (92)
• United States
28 Sep 06
i dont need a test to answer this one-i could not imagine waisting one minute of my life unless my lover was my best friend--or my best friend was my lover--whichever...
@slimfox (900)
• United States
28 Sep 06
Lucky you. The evidence suggests that you and your lover are the best of friends. This fact can only add to your mutual happiness in life, by enriching it daily. In other words, personal attachment forms a large part of your earthly togetherness. Be very happy. Deep friendship is the Last Refuge of the Soul against Eternity.
@jdduffer (129)
• United States
29 Sep 06
The Results: Lucky you. The evidence suggests that you and your lover are the best of friends. This fact can only add to your mutual happiness in life, by enriching it daily. In other words, personal attachment forms a large part of your earthly togetherness. Be very happy. Deep friendship is the Last Refuge of the Soul against Eternity.
My husband is my lover and my best friend and if I lost everything else in this world and still had him I would be happy!