should i tell my best friend that her girlfriend slept with me???????????

India
December 30, 2006 3:51pm CST
it all hapnd ,it was nt ever intended by me........ one day we 3 stayed at my place as my parents were out ...............bt thn my frnd had 2 go back to his place for sum work and rest ................ he s my best frnd ,i want to tell him the truth....but how.....................any ways????
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@jennifer611 (2514)
• United States
30 Dec 06
well best friends dont do those things to each other so I wouldnt consider myself a best friend if I did that.. I would more consider myself a back stabber if anything... I think your friend deserves to know that you and his girlfriend are so low that way he can make the decision if he wants either of u to still remain in his life.. if your lucky enough that he forgives u I would make sure to never do this again.. also always remember that what's in the dark will eventaully come to the light.. would u rather him find out on his own and then be mad that not only u did that but u had been lying about it and hiding it from him?? I say tell and get it over with..
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• India
30 Dec 06
thanks dear .....i ws in need of ur advice........
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• United States
5 Jan 07
I cant stand people like you you sit there and say oh their my best friend well best friends dont do that. Belive me I have everyright to think this to because my suposed best friend did the excact same thing you did it hurt so much we are no longer acwanted and I am glad. How can you do that to your friend I just dont get it ok so he left that is not an exscuse. He has evry right to know but do you want to know how I found out I walked in on them man I could have uh I hate people that do that.
@umerasif (532)
• Pakistan
3 Jan 07
Well the fact of you telling your best friend depends on it whether your freinds gf is serious with him or not and what level of emotional involvement does your best friend have with her. Analyse the situation, you dont want to devastate your best friend with this information. It also depends on whether she seuduced you or vice versa. I guess you should take the decission since you are the best judge of it as you know your best friend the most and the situation as well. If you do decide to tell him, then there should be no beating around the bush at all. Just tell him what happened without any lies. Since one lie would lead to another and then yet another and ultimately your lies will catch up with you. Honesty is the best policy
• United States
3 Jan 07
Your friend deserves to know exactly what kind of person his girlfriend is and what kind of person his so called friend is. I am sorry for your friend as true friends do not do this under no circumstances. Yes tell him what you both did to him.