How do you tell your boyfriend you are pregnant when he cant have children?
By laurie0515
@laurie0515 (116)
United States
December 30, 2006 7:53pm CST
My boyfriend of 10 years cant have children....we split up(the first time in 10 years)And I got pregnant. We got back together a few months later but by then I was 5 months pregnant.....how do I tell him(because i cant hide it forever!)I love him so much and he loves me. He is a great role model for my other 2 children.
2 responses
@nishanity (1650)
• India
31 Dec 06
woah!!! well i dont think u have much choice but to tell this guy your mistake and show him that u are truly sorry about it,,, technically its not anyone fault as you guys split up that time.... but he would feel hurt... that is for sure!! but no use lieing to him... relationships dont work that way!! they are based on trust more than anything else... good luck... if he truly loves u, he will understand... have a happy new year!!!
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@laurie0515 (116)
• United States
31 Dec 06
well I dont have much of a choice! He is going to be hurt...I know this. I havent lied to him he knows I was with someone else..I know he was also. It6s what happens when you split up sometimes. But now I am lying....and I dont like that feeling either.
Thank you so much..I hope you have a good new year also.
@LittleStars (318)
• United States
31 Dec 06
Ok wait, is the child you are pregnant with his...or by someone else you were with during the few months you were apart? If I were you I would just come out and tell him, like you said - you can't hide it forever and in a few weeks you are going to start showing. If he really loves you (and its not his) then he will stay with you. =) But (if its not his) you have a responsibility to let the other person know that you are pregnant also.
Good luck to you! I hope everything works out. =)
@laurie0515 (116)
• United States
31 Dec 06
No it is the other mans...my boyfriend cant have children. I know what needs to be done but it isnt easy.....
