You're at a bar....

I agree very much! If someone sees it and doesn't say something, you might as well be doing it too!

I will talk to her husband or her relatives like parents, cousin, etc.,

Very good idea! Thank you =)

I suppose everyone has their rights to do and say as they wish. If she's not pregnant? I'd rather be embarrassed as go home knowing I left an innocent life sitting in that bar.

I agree with emeraldisle. I too have been asked when my baby is due. I'm not fat anywhere except my stomach. I work out but I still look pregnant - what some people would consider "obviously pregnant". Second, I agree - it's none of my business. I find it hard to believe that anyone could not know that drinking while pregnant is bad. So the mother chooses to drink. By you going up and saying something to her, you are likely to get into a fight. No one likes to be accused of doing something wrong. If she is a grown woman she is going to be offended that you put your two sense in. And if she is already drinking, and is hormonal from being pregant it's just going to turn out badly.

Thank you for sharing. However, the discussion was more based on an "obviously pregnant woman who is obviously drinking." I know there are gray areas in anything. But, my topic was more geared towards obvious facts, rather than gray areas. Maybe I am a busy body. But, when it comes to negligent mother's for the sake of an innocent baby? I feel it is my right as another human being to stand up for that child. Maybe Jesus was a "busy body" when it came to healing the blind. But it sure did a number on "most" of us today. =)

I agree because basically everyone knows the risks involved so by drinking, she has made the choice to take the risks and a total stranger isn't going to change her mind. It is horrible to see, especially if the person is completely drunk but it is their baby and their body, nothing the rest of us do is going to change that. A friend of mine used to get drunk every weekend while she was pregnant, which I hated but nothing I said or did stopped her so I stopped going to the places where I knew I would see her. The fact that her baby was perfect means that next time she is pregnant she will use that as an excuse to get drunk. Another friend drank a lot for five months before she realised she was pregnant and ended up losing the baby, which was devastating to her. Sometimes life isn't fair but there are some things we can't change. Also, on my first pregnancy, I was about seven months pregnant and I drank the first cup of coffee I had since I found out I was pregnant only to be lectured by a complete stranger. This woman did not know me at all yet she felt she had the right to tell me what to do, one cup of coffee throughout my entire pregnancy was not going to harm my baby and I didn't think she had a right to approach me about it anyway because it wasn't her business. Not only did this stress me out and upset me but it made me really annoyed and I got another cup of coffee just to spite her, I didn't drink it but thats not the point. If you get in someone's face, they are more likely to carry on with what they are doing. If you get into a pregnant woman's face, then you can cause more stress and damage to the baby if she got really annoyed.

Good girl. I can't imagine anyone just standing back and letting it happen either. Thanks for responding =)

i can't imagine either, but i guess that's just how things go sometimes, i would also more than likely have something to say to everyone just standing there watching it. Thanks for the best response hun.

Very much agreed. Thank you =)

Thank you for you response. =)

For uh.... "your" response. I really wish Mylot would add an edit button. Lol

Agreed. Thank you for your response. =)

and i would do it VERY LOUDLY!!!!

Good job. =P Very well said. Thank you =)

Very good point. I think someone should say something to the bartender as well! He's just as guilty! (or she)

Thank you for your response. =)

Agreed. Thank you for your response. =)

To each his own... thank you for your response. =)

Same here darlin'. And if she got mad at you and left the bar? Mission Accomplished!! =P