i want to be social n friendly / myLot

Netherlands

December 31, 2006 10:59am CST

hey guyz, i ve moved to a new place in a new country.. all people r stangers over here. they speak a different language. although i can speak english but the natives r more fluent so ,most of the times i cant understand. even if i goto a shoppin mall, i cant check out, bacause my friend is with me n if i cant uinderstand them, my friend wud laugh at me.. i wanna avoid this ambarrassment. please tell me.. although my friend is also a stranger over here, but he has been living here fir past three yrs, so he has got well with the new environment.. plz tell me wat to do.. how shud i be confident..

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2 responses

priya123s

@priya123s (320)

• India

1 Jan 07

best thing is to learn their language and ask anyone of them to teach you.

@asazam (159)

• Netherlands

2 Jan 07

hey priya thnx for the concern, i really appreciate the response. it really gave me a boost

asmachattha

@asmachattha (36)

• Pakistan

29 Jan 07

i think you should get out more so that you can meet new people and talk to them even though its difficult for you to understand them at first but with passage of time you will start to feel more comfortable and confidence will come with time so you should not disappointed if someone gives you hard time