Have you ever been cheated on?
By zianda2003
@zianda2003 (22)
South Africa
September 28, 2006 6:46am CST
It is said that a person will be cheated on atleast twice in their life time. Must you go thru this stage in life?
3 responses
@Lackingstyle (7509)
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30 Sep 06
PErhaps going through it and comming out the otherside grants you a deeper understanding of love. Although I haven't been cheated on nor I have I cheated.
@zianda2003 (22)
• South Africa
4 Oct 06
Good for you. I've been cheated more than once but must admitt that was before i got married. God gave me a nice faithful husband to make up for all the hurt i've experienced.
@Mamasotho (22)
• South Africa
28 Sep 06
There are risks to everything in life, and being cheated in some way is one of them. Going through it the first time is a learning curve. In life, you learn most in the dark times, not in the fun times. The good times are there to give you a breather between lessons, and are to be enjoyed to their fullest. If you are cheated regularly, well, it is said that "once bitten, twice shy", but your lessons in this regard have not made you wise yet, and you would need to take serious stock of your approach to life. From experience, I would say that every person has been cheated in some way or another in their life, and probably more than twice. It will be so throughout time. What matters though is how you deal with it.
@zianda2003 (22)
• South Africa
4 Oct 06
THat is quite a good and detailed answer. What are you a Phsycologist?
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
4 Oct 06
well. my time has come and gone for this. All my exes before my honey now cheated. It was more or less thet hadn't quite let go of the one before me so I let go for them.