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United States
September 28, 2006 8:47am CST
Can any one tell me how to get over my husbands affair it has been almost a year and I still dont trust him. And because of it I am closing myself off from him.
2 responses
@jhannon (1406)
• United States
28 Sep 06
thats normal.seek marriage counceling or just coucnleingf or yourslef it will helpa lot.....He betrayed you so now its only normal that u cant not worry he will do it again..
@browneyes (395)
• United States
28 Sep 06
If your closing your self off from him. There is a reason for it.. Trust is something that is earned and built upon. Not something that is given on a silver spoon. You need to talk to your husband about your feelings. open up to him. He is the one that did wrong. Not you. You have to beable to talk about it. feelings and all to one another. When trust is broken between and husband and wife, I beleive. It will always leave a scar. weather the scar is ugly and red or if it is small and shows little will be up to you.I wish you the best of luck with your problem.