Is giving your money to your mom wrong??

@Si1234 (457)
India
September 28, 2006 12:00pm CST
My dad died when i was 3, and my mom rased my sister and I all by herself. Now that i have a good job i try to give my mom all my money.should i just keep giving all my money to my mom. Is it bad to give my money to my mom?
47 responses
@Nahara (1673)
• Israel
11 Oct 06
No that's not wrong at all if u can help your mother then why not she raised herself and the two of u by herself and since the age of 3 and your mother deserves a helping hand if u can afford it to yourself, way to go.
• India
11 Oct 06
yeah i think all r mostly of the view tat one should help their mothers...
• United States
7 Oct 06
There is nothing wrong with what you are doing. I helped my mom out for years. What you are doing just goes to show that you love your family and are a great daughter. Just remember to keep enough for yourself so you can survive as well, your mom would not want you to go belly up on her behalf.
• India
7 Oct 06
yep u should keep helping ur mother...
@shilpi (390)
• India
28 Sep 06
I feel it is "Mother" there is nothing can be more than her. God has been created her instead of appearing himself directly in front of us.......Oh! U R worshipping ur Visible GOD in this way....Good.... keep Going don't stop ............that What ever u r doing that's a great............
@shilpi (390)
• India
6 Oct 06
10k's a lot...........................! maheshraor
@unnigec (246)
• India
28 Sep 06
No. If she needs the money then you should give it. because it is because of here that you are in this position now. And it is not good to keep bad feelings between family members, because they will always have good feelings for you unlike strangers to whom we should behave propperly or else they will definitley have bad feelings about you.
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
11 Oct 06
agree with you
@JiWuJun (583)
• China
12 Oct 06
Certainly cannot
@JiWuJun (583)
• China
12 Oct 06
Certainly cannot
• United States
11 Oct 06
its not bad, but i definately wouldnt give it all to her, its nice that you are taking care of her, but there comes a point where you need to take care of yourself
@srhelmer (7029)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
12 Oct 06
I think it's great if you help your mom out if she needs it. But, she also needs to learn how to do things on her own, not just depend on you.
@franhrnt (185)
• United States
11 Oct 06
Are you taking care of you and yours first?Does your mom need the money?I'm glad to hear that you are doing this but I feel that you should not give anyone all of your money,you need to be thinking of your future.
@katyzzz (2897)
• Australia
12 Oct 06
I don't think you should give all your money to your mum. She's obviously raised a very caring, supportive child. Does she really need the money? You're working, you're entitled to a fair percentage of your earnings. By all means help your Mum. But don't take on all her responsibilities. You will have your own some day. Be fair, give a little extra and be happy and independent. It's not bad to give money to your Mum, but you have your own needs. Be free!
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
12 Oct 06
No why would you ask that question? your mom birth you she took care of you as best she could. You don't have to give it all to her, there nothing wrong with giving her some if you want.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
12 Oct 06
No why would you ask that question? your mom birth you she took care of you as best she could. You don't have to give it all to her, there nothing wrong with giving her some if you want.
@jzcb87 (1797)
• United States
11 Oct 06
What? bad to give money to your mom? thats crazy. She took care of you most of your life? whats wrong with giving some money to her?
@toonatoons (3737)
• Philippines
12 Oct 06
of course not. i even oblige myself to give a portion of my salary to my mom. i mean, after all. she did all the hard work for me for soooooooo many years without asking for anything in return. she didn't bill me for the time, patience and effort (not to mention the money she spent for me) to keep me alive and groom me into the person that i am now.
@mai720 (327)
• United States
11 Oct 06
no. it could help her out.
@vipul20044 (5793)
• India
11 Oct 06
Not at all it aint wrong! You know you are the only one who lends a hand to support you as well as your mom Your parents spent so much to give you good education , u expected a lot from them but now its ur mom expecting things from u and yes wthout a shadow of doubt u are standing on her expectations Though i suggest u do save some of the money and yes a part for urself too!
• United States
11 Oct 06
Because she worked so hard for you and your sister when you were kids, I don't see a problem with helping her out now. It is nice that you think of her. THe only time I could see it as being her taking advantage of you was if she hadn't sacraficed so much for you and she was doing fine but still asking you for money all the time.
@Helpmeout (230)
• United States
11 Oct 06
Hey, she took care of you all those years you're just reciprocating
• India
11 Oct 06
It would be really foolish to think that this is wrong. Your mother has done everything that she can for you. Now, when you are earning I think its really foolish to ask this question. You should do whatever you can to make her feel happy.
@britishyip (1609)
• India
11 Oct 06
hey man... just go ahd.. u shd give her money and ask her for ur pocket money.. in this manner u give her more happiness.. that she has a good son.. who loves her.. its really a good thinking.. decision is yours..