extract from an article I read on parenting tips

@nhtpscd (1416)
Australia
January 1, 2007 4:42pm CST
Very often, new parents rely on a parenting tip or two which is passed to them by their own folks, who are now grandparents and usually have plenty of reliable advice to share. If this sort of parenting tip and advice is not available however, new parents could run into all sorts of problems while trying to raise a healthy baby. Attending a few lessons at a parenting class where valuable knowledge and all kinds of parenting tips are passed along and shared could rectify this lack of basic skills. New parents who don't have a readily available source of the parenting tip or guidance could also research books on the subject of parenting, which are full of knowledge and feature many a tried-and-tested parenting tip. The resulting knowledge, discussion and available parenting tips will help new parents to understand and better cope with the demands of child rearing. The arrival of a newborn baby can be a truly joyous occasion for all concerned and attending a parenting class for new parents could enhance this happiness. However, if the parents have no prior knowledge of child rearing or a parenting tip, this joy could turn to anger and frustration as the weeks pass by. Not all new parents are fortunate enough to have a reliable support system to lean on during those early years and lack even the most basic parenting tip or advice! Mistakes are often made when a parenting tip is lacking during these stressful times. These parenting tip mistakes affect both the baby and partners, and often frazzled nerves lead to emotional depression, anger and resentment. Arguments are usually the outcome as stressed parents with no parenting tip to guide them vie with each other when making child care decisions. A lack of parenting class or child rearing knowledge means parents have no clear parenting tip to light the way and find it difficult to achieve responsible baby care. This frustration could be lessened to a large extent if these parents were able to attend a parenting class. When discussing parenting tip availability, it is wise to remember that there are many other people who might also benefit from a parenting class. Not only are new parents the usual candidates for a parenting class, but often those who have been parents for years reap the benefit of a parenting tip as well. Parents never stop learning about their children and a parenting tip is often just what they need during times of confusion. Our children have many things to adjust to which they often have difficulty with and parents can apply their specific parenting tip when necessary. If children encounter difficult times during their lives, they often react with unmanageable behavior and this is when their parents need parenting tip advice the most. In cases of divorce, for example, the new stepparent can gain valuable insights when attending a parenting class and discussing step parenting with other like-minded people. It is not always easy to become a stepparent and any parenting tip on this issue could prove helpful for those who are trying to provide positive parenting effects for all their family members. A parenting tip for stepparents attending a parenting class would teach them how to turn unrealistic expectations in realistic ones. A good parenting tip and advice learnt in parenting class helps stepparents to understand what their obligations are and where to draw the line. Many marriages that come complete with children fail and stepparents can learn much from parenting class on how to avoid such statistics where possible. A parent who wishes to learn as much about parenting should attend parenting class and apply the parenting tips learnt there to daily life. Thus attending a parenting class could result in a well-balanced family life with relaxed parents and children who utilize the valuable parenting tips they have learnt there.
3 responses
@Metallion (2227)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Some very good tips in the article, but don't you think you could have phrased them in your own words instead of just cutting and pasting a large section of text?
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
3 Jan 07
It was only parts of the article The link has a heap more info than that. But thanks for the response
@rjbass (1422)
• United States
1 Jan 07
There is some very wise advise in this article and it wouldn't be a bad idea for all parents to take some sort of course durring their parenting tenure. I sure feel sometimes that I need a refresher. As for sending parenting tips down from generation to generation, I have some cases that I don't agree with. My inlaws are very traditionally Asian and with their advise comes much superstition. Not that I don't respect their thoughts and beliefs, but I don't raise my children on superstition.
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
1 Jan 07
Thanks for the reply. I agree sometimes the advice given by the older generation has its flaws. I am a mum 7 times over and still to this day read parenting articles etc.
• China
2 Jan 07
All parents are great