Would you stay away from your kid?

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Many men and of course woman too stays away from their kids because they are afride that they make the situation worser then they are around. In Sweden there are parents who split and the parent who have the kids make all for break the connection between him/she and the kids. Many of this parents who is pushed away stop fighting in the end for the right and let the kids have both parent around. The biggest reason is that they see how much the hard times the kids have then mom/dadd talking bad about the parent who not live with them. The law in Sweden protect more and less the parent who behave bad in this. The parent who have the kids living with him/her can more and less decide things by themself and do not need to talk with the other parent. The law says that then it´s both parent who have the custody then both should agree about things who is around the kids and in the same way lets say that one of them move then the other parent need to sign under a paper that it is ok..here the law breaks with that they go in with another law and in the end tit is a ok move even if the other one don´t agree with the move. And so it is with the school..if u move the kids to another school both should sign under but there it goes in another law who says that the kid need to be in school so in the end it´s ok and do what they want with this. This is a big problem more for the dadds because often it is the mom who have the kids living in her place. Many dadds put outside the system about their own kids. Then I ask myself if one parent shut out the other parent for the reson that she have a new bf and so on ..notice ..not for a crime reson or alcohol or something like this..why should the woman then have money from the other one who not are allowed and be around and have a normal relationship. I have been near people who have fight in moths in years for have some relation with their kids some do give up and try to go on with their life some try it some more years. Then I see this people fight only for hit the head in the wall and break down more and more then I understand if they put themself in the background with the thinkng that one day I will meet my kid. So would you stay away then u see that the situation goes out over control so the kids feeling bad?