My friends, where are you?
By nkcshqin6
@nkcshqin6 (78)
China
January 2, 2007 12:40am CST
Do you think one person can finds a good friend on the "myLot.com"? Why can I find a friend on the "myLot.com"?
I sent messages to my friends who I add to my list of my friends, but I haven't get a message from them. Why?
Do they just only for money joining the myLot?
I can't understand! Do you made a good friend on the "myLot.com"? How to make a good friend???
I need your help, because I really want to make a good friend in other countries!!!
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32 responses
@dutchess67 (917)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I think you can find good friends anywhere if you try. I love to exchange messages with friends, but I am a bit shy sometimes and don't always know what to say to people, so I generally do better with people who will initiate contact, but there are many of us out there willing to make new friends!
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@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
2 Jan 07
If you get a free yahoo id you can use it for msn too but if you have an eyeball chat id you can message yahoo,msn,AIM, and eyeballers. Just a little info that is good to know so you don't clog your computer with useless software. Your friends will respond. I respond to all of my friends when they message me.
@perugu (5279)
• India
2 Jan 07
hi,thats true in many cases.one of senior member declared that he wants to delete all friends from his list as no one is responding properly,so you can understand the mylot friends.but out 50 or 100 friends,4 are came close with me by regular private messages an responding to all discussions of each.ex' for me joeyca..fianna...krishnaveera..mypigbox..like that.so all the best.
@nkcshqin6 (78)
• China
2 Jan 07
er, I agree with you. friends at good not at many.
thank you for your response.
@asadahsan (723)
• Pakistan
2 Jan 07
well i think we can find here but i think so many persons here who love money not friends that is why they never message you and i think this is bad that they are thinking about money and not thinking about friends here and it is really bad and i think here and every where we need to work as a community and with love...
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@nkcshqin6 (78)
• China
2 Jan 07
thank you . I agree with you.now most people want to make more money but forget love and good-fellowship. at last, they will find love and good-fellowship is most important.
@Mubashar1988 (1825)
• Pakistan
2 Jan 07
i think this site is not gonna help you for this purpose bcoz more than 98% people are here ofr money and those are too much busy in posting and uploading images so that they can't reply you. You should try other sources to make friends online like Yahoo! Chat etc...
@nkcshqin6 (78)
• China
2 Jan 07
maybe you are right. but I'll still try hard to find my good friends.
thank you for your response.
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
2 Jan 07
of course you can make good friends from myLot...i have a lot of nice friends that i've gotten to know here...and having private messages helped too as i can get to know them much better...dont worry...you are just new here...spend more time here, respond to more discussion and you will have a lot of nice friends!
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
3 Jan 07
It is nice to meet people from around the world. Connecting with people and getting to know more about them is great. Welcome to MyLot!
@loveoutloud (225)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I'll add you to my friends list! I got one of my online friends to join and while it's not the same thing, it is nice to know some people around here.
But I'm Kelly, it's really nice to meet you!
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@lucalucky (1839)
• Italy
2 Jan 07
You can find good friend on MyLot but you have to post on their discussions, send private messages and maybe wait a bit more. You are a new member, other affilaites needs to know you a bit more, see your profile, read your discussions and posts then they'll become your friends.
@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I like to make real friends too. I like the idea of knowing and trusting who responds to my posts and questions. When someone sends me a message, I always respond, unless it is rude or inappropriate. If they went through the time to send it, I can find the time to respond. What country are you from?
@deshabhishek007 (919)
• India
3 Jan 07
don't worry buddy.
you must have added person's having high post score.
how could they chat you until they haven't ever related to you.
so first respond in there disscusion and then add him ,
may thay can talk to you.
@nkcshqin6 (78)
• China
2 Jan 07
Oh , you have gotten a good friend.I envy you . haha~
just a joke. hope you can make more friends.
I'm sorry to tell you that I haven't yahoo ID.
thank you for your response ,too.
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@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
Don't worry about finding a good friend, just be a good one and keep on answering topics with all sincerity and you will be surprised, they will come. It happened to me that there are times I have to pause mylot for a while to have a good chat with her on Yahoo. Lots of times!!!! so keep on maintaining a healthy and polished image, true and real friends will surely come.
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@pestishor17 (213)
• Romania
3 Jan 07
how made money on this site..sending messago or receiving message?
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@Aali311 (6112)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I have quite a few good friends here on mylot, I have over a thousand but there is a bunch that keep in touch on a regular basis, they are nice and I do think you can find real friends on here, but it's up to you to find them, or maybe they will find you.
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@leedug (920)
• United States
3 Jan 07
That's a good question. I get friend requests daily from people , but then after I accept I never hear from any except a select few. I am not sure why they do this, but when I add someone as a friend I do take the time out to go and read many of their discussions.
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@chiquita1977 (1706)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Ive been having this same problem.i do not understand why it is so hard to make friends on here.i think alot of people are only here for the money.im here for both extra money and to meet people which as of now it hasnt worked.i do not know why people want to be added to your friends if that is as far as it goes.makes no sence to me either.
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@Janono630 (238)
• United States
3 Jan 07
i ahve made a couple frinds that i talked to but i am always careful on who i talk to and what i talk about online. have to be safe.
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@shywolf (4514)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I think that you can make some good friends here if you just keep posting and responding to people. However, most people are probably here more to earn money than they are to make friendships. But there are some really nice people here, and I am certain that you will find some true friends if you keep trying! I wish you much good luck and success in finding all of the friends that you wish for! ^_^
