yo! which asian sites should i first visit?

Seoul is just like any other city in the world. But since you're a westerner, you'll probably still be amazed with Korea. Seoul is a good place to visit. Lots of historical places. In Seoul, go to Itaewon or Gangnam, there are lots of foreigners there so you can get help. You'll find it hard to meet an English-speaking person in most places in Korea. A nice place to shop is at Nam Dae Mun or Dong Dae Mun. Those are their biggest shopping places. And for clubs or restos, go to Myong Dong and Insadong.

I visited Seoul about 3 months ago, it is nice but all 5 palaces are the same so don't waist too much time running to all of them. You really nice bus service that goes all around the city and costs 10 $ a day.