How many kids do you want?
By mom2rottie
@mom2rottie (620)
21 responses
@bronie123 (4587)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Well i guess i will be having 2 kids because thats how many my fiance says he wants
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@mom2rottie (620)
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3 Jan 07
But how many do YOU want? Me and my husband don't agree, he would want more than I do! jokingly he says 12
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@bronie123 (4587)
• United States
5 Jan 07
oh my 12 thats way to many kids yikes right now i really don't want any but i guess that will have to change because i love my fiance !!!!
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@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
2 Jan 07
For the moment I don't have any kid but I want 2 or 3 :)
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@Acts238girl (2087)
• United States
2 Jan 07
i want three kids.i have one little 3 year old boy right now.we are now trying for our second.
@mom2rottie (620)
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3 Jan 07
How did you pick 3? Are you sure you'll be done then? I thought I wanted 2, my husband in jest, says he wants 12. We just don't know!! Now that I have 2 I'm trying to decide if I really want to do this again... I have a 2 yr old, (terrible twos!!) maybe that's why it's so hard to decide!! LOL
@crystal8577 (1466)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I don't think I have a magic number. I always said I wanted 3. We just had #3 2 weeks ago & the thought of never having another baby saddens me. The dr. asked if I wanted my tubes tied & I said no. I am not sure that we are done having kids at this point.
@mom2rottie (620)
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5 Jan 07
You have just voiced my thoughts!! I'm happy with our family, but I get sad thinking I will never hold my own baby in the middle of the night again... I love every part of motherhood and it's hard to think I'm done with the baby part... I always said with my 2nd, if I have to have a C-section I want my tubes tied... thinking that would be a sign that I needed to be done. I don't have easy pregnancies, or deliveries (just easy babies!)but that sign didn't come... so now I have to decide for myself... lol
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@dutchess67 (917)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I always thought I wanted to have a couple of kids. I love children and have always felt that I would have made a great Mom, but the older I get, the less I am convinced that I'm meant to have any of my own. I still wish that I had a little girl, but if it's meant to be, I guess it will happen one day.
I always also thought that if I never had any of my own, I would eventually adopt or become a foster parent, but that hasn't come to pass either. So who knows?
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@mom2rottie (620)
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3 Jan 07
You are never too old to be a good mom!! I'm 25 and still look up to my mom!! When the time is right you might become one.
@umjuna (100)
• Netherlands
3 Jan 07
I personally do not have a certain number in my mind. I have one son at this moment. And one on the way. I love the idea of a great big happy family. But if it stops with these two then I am fine with that too, and accept it a God's Will for me. I do not think you can really plan it in advance, you never know what is decreed for you and what is going to happen. So I just think like this, when it comes it comes, and if it doesn't it doesn't. Quite simple really.
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@mom2rottie (620)
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5 Jan 07
So do you not use any type of birth control? I get pregnant as soon as I stop taking birth control. I was told that it would take 18 months after I got off of Depo to get pregnant, we were pregnant within one month. So I can't really just say, if it happens, it happens. Because if I get off b.c. it WILL happen.
@hannarose27 (514)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I have 2 kids right now, a almost 3 year old daughter and a 8 month old son. Right now were not planning on having anymore at least for a few years. I'd like to have 1 more.
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@tigrashadow (1086)
• Australia
2 Jan 07
i know kids can be wonderful and rewarding but ive never felt the want to have kids...id rather have pets...but if i do happen to get pregnant to a wonderful man..then id stick with one...
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@Crystalwatson345 (441)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I dont have kids right now but when I do I only want 2 of them. hopeful one a girl and one a boy.
@ecpunzalan (401)
• Philippines
4 Jan 07
Two would be ok with me, actually I have one (4 year old boy) and he is already a miracle for me because I have asthma and I had a heart condition when I was a kid... if I would have more than one would be another blessing...
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@nuno_canelas (1470)
• Portugal
3 Jan 07
i don´t have anyone,i´m too young to be a father,and my girlfiend is also too young..
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@harmoniebreeze (246)
• United States
4 Jan 07
WOW I asked the same question yesterday. I have two and that seems perfect. What happens when you have 3 and it is just you and your husband? Who gets the 3rd one and doesn't it seem that one child is always left out.
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@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
12 Jan 07
Me? I don't want any kids. Yes, you heard me right, I never want any kids. Why? Well, I have many reasons. So, zero would have to be the magic number for me. :P
@harris24982 (530)
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3 Jan 07
ide like to have atleast 2 a boy and a girl
1 of my brothers has 4 2 boys and 2 girls that seems to work well
they allways have a friend around thatway
@SingingPsycho (343)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Well ... I figure it would take prolly two to make a good sandwich. So I'll say two.
Kidding!! I have a 13 year old daughter. That's quite enough, thanks.
