when you're in a relationship, do you accept "friendly dates" from guy friends?
By laptopchick
@laptopchick (565)
Philippines
January 3, 2007 2:12am CST
or girl friends, for the guys... how does you're partner deal with it? do they allow you to go out, or not?
4 responses
@SetoKun (286)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
Yes, before. I'm currently in a long distance relationship right now and before I used to have friendly dates with other ladies in my place and my girlfriend knew it. She was acting like it was okay and because she trust me but afterwards I found out when we had a serious talk that I was hurting her badly and that she was crying everytime I'm doing those stuffs so I stopped. Right now I'm doing that anymore because I don't want my girlfriend to be hurt again.
@laptopchick (565)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
That's sweet... :) You're doing the right thing. I just hope my boyfriend's not doing any dating, because we're in a long distance relationship, too...
@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
14 Jan 07
well if i went out with another guy friend and my hubby new it he'd kill the guy im with.. i dont have reason to go out with guys on friendly dates because i think that it is improper.. why not go out on a real date with your hubby instead?.
@laptopchick (565)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
Yup, that's the proper way. And when I have my own hubby, I surely won't go out on friendly dates...
It just bothers me now... I have a boyfriend, and some guys invite me, and they always use the reason... that it's just a "friendly date". Of course, I'm a loyal and faithful lover... I always turn down the invites...
@laptopchick (565)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
Yes, i understand... I know what you mean... People could misinterpret the whole thing...
