Please Ladies Give Your Ideas!

@budsr03 (2350)
Canada
January 3, 2007 3:42am CST
I want to become a better person overall and a good start would be with women in general. To gain the respect, trust and frienship of women what changes does man have to do to become or gain these? What are some ways or actions you would have us change? In my past I have treated some females as objects and lesser beings. I truly want to improve myself. This is Not a Joke Post.
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6 responses
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
4 Jan 07
One time when my partner came home from work, he told me about meeting a older couple who had been married a long time. The couple seemed very happy. The wife boasted she had the most wonderful husband a woman could ask for. And the husband asked my partner if he wanted to know what the secret was. Of course, my partner was interested in what a wise man might tell him the key to success with women would be. The wise man then told my partner..."She is always right. As soon as you realize and accept this, the happier and most success you will have." I kid you not, this is a true story! :)
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@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
4 Jan 07
Thank you and I love it. Somewhere in my heart I knew this but there are a lot of things I don't know about myself yet.
• Canada
10 Mar 07
I think more men should learn this little piecs of information, lol.
• India
3 Jan 07
You have started to think that you would be a good person and that is why you are good person. In order to be accepted by woman you don't need to do extra. Just let the life run on its own way. You can't chage the way but you can make it beautiful and memorable. Try to make every second of your life memorable and all your world would become more splendid, moer enjoyable and more admirable to all. Just keep your hear open, welcome all be cheerful so that you can make others happy. Then all will come to you without any hasization.
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@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
3 Jan 07
Welcome back! You've been missed. I will talk a bit later. A little busy now
• United States
4 Jan 07
Honesty is the best policy. And be sincere.
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
4 Jan 07
Thank you Hockeygal. I am honest but I can work on sincerity.
• Romania
3 Jan 07
that depend on man to man.I thinck in live everyoane know's what mistacke did.So it's better not behaive with women licke they are objects becouse they aren't.A women diserve all the respect and love.So a flower a beautiful word and a nice walck in the parck or who knows.That depend on women's to.But all of us licke that man's to be nice to talck with respect and to behaive nice.To be sincer and to improve many thincks. To be surprizing in a good way.
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@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
6 Jan 07
I admire and respect women more now since my heart has been opened up. My eyes and heart were opened about 6yrs ago. Something happened in my life that made me want to become this better person to all people. One day i will explain on mylot. Thank you for your responce.
• United States
7 Jan 07
I think it is great that you have realized that in the past you did not treat women with respect. Being a better person does not start with treating just women better. Treat yourself with respect. Treat human beings with respect. Treat animals with respect. Treat "All Things" with respect. What you put out comes back to you. Some people and/or women like to play games. I try to avoid these people and situations. Second, I would say do not change yourself just to please another. You have to be yourself. Hopefully that is a fun, happy, loving, honest person. Life is to short to be unhappy. I would wonder why you treated women badly. Were you taught or shown by example tha this was acceptable, or did you have a low self-esteem and did it to feel more in control. Whatever the reason, now you are a better person for changing. As long as you are not hurting or dis-honoring anyone, just be happy.
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@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
7 Jan 07
Thank you very much for your true words. Live well Starspottedhorse.
• Canada
10 Mar 07
I think its great that you are looking to better yourself. The first suggestion that I can give you is be real, and be honest! A woman will never trust a dishonest man, and if you are fake, we may not see it right away, but you can only be fake for so long before the real you shines through. I think the most important thing is that you should not claim to be changed if you truly are not, and also, if you can respect a woman and prove that you value her and love her through actions rather than words. Do not expect this to happen overnight. When you find the woman you are head over heels for, it will take a lifetime of gaining her trust, and building a relationship. I think it would be great if there were more men in the world that realized that a you can never stop trying in a relationship. We fall in love with you because of how you are in the beginning, thats why relationships fall apart, because people get too comfortable within the relationship and they forget to do the work.
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@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
11 Mar 07
I agree about doing the work. I couldn't like myself if everything was "me "me. I just enjoy putting smiles on peoples faces. There seems to be a big shortage of this. Take care MissBrittBC.