Have you ever been bullied when you were young?
By vianneivanne
@vianneivanne (91)
Philippines
January 3, 2007 7:16am CST
The closest I've come to being bullied was when I was in my freshman year in highschool. A boy from the other class drew an ugly girl's face on the blackboard and filled it with lots of dots (because I had pimples back then and I wasn't exactly pretty). He then wrote my whole name (first name and surname) under the drawing. He did this just before an all-boy class came into our room.
I was so embarrassed and close to tears, a friend of mine offered to erase the drawing on the blackboard for me but I stopped her.
I wasn't traumatized by that incident and I never cursed nor intentionally ignored that "bully". I wasn't really a confrontational person. I wasn't vengeful either.
But as months passed, I felt vindicated because good things kept happening one after the other. I got voted president of my class, I made it to the honor roll, I won several contests (and had my name posted on our huge bulletin boards with congratulatory captions) and I gained the respect of my classmates and teachers.
Once in a while I remember that boy. The last I heard is that he got into drugs and hasn't accomplished anything remarkable in his life yet.
So, have you ever been bullied before?
1 response
@southernpixie (741)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I have always been shorter than everyone else my age (I'm 28 and 4'11"), so of course, I was an easy target. Then when I was 12, I had to get braces, again, something else for people to pick on me about. There was this group of siblings that rode my school bus and they tried every day to make my life hell. I even got into a fight with one of them because she thought I was talking about her (I wasn't). Of course, I defended myself. She got suspended, I didn't. But that was because she was a known trouble maker. Once I started dating , I didn't get picked on as much. I guess that was becuase I was always with a group of people. Bullies don't like it when they have to go up against more than one person. But I can say this much, the bullying made me who I am. I learned not to take crap off of anyone. I guess that's where I get my attitude from.
@vianneivanne (91)
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
Good for you! There's really no use wallowing in self-pity because of bullies. More than anything, I do think that bullies are insecure. And yes, they chicken out when faced with a crowd.
And it's not just "bullying" per se. Getting criticized or wrongly judged by people should motivate you to become a better person. Laugh it off and go out there and show 'em who's the laughing stock now!