im bored with my girlfriend

Philippines
January 3, 2007 7:51am CST
im getting bored with my relationship to my girlfriend, i dont know what to do, i dont know to say to her, i dont want to hurt her. please help me.
3 responses
@tongel25 (48)
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
this is only my opinion... for me,if im in your situation i will not tell to her straightly... i will less my time to her to her to notice that im busy for her to realize to think about what's happening in our relationship... or i think i will tell to her that im noy longer happy so we can talk in a nice way if we can make it up to survive of we will give up the relationship that we have... ok? i hope my opinion is ok...
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
thats my point, i dont to tell her right now or straightly, maybe she react like a strange if i do that, we became for about 2 years, i dont the reason why for me, im just getting bored, unhappy i am when we are together right now
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
that also my point, i dont to straight her right know, i wait until she will aslo bored with, thats maybe the time i can tell the truth
@tambdy (1967)
3 Jan 07
You need to find out if you really love her, if you do sit and speak to her and try and work it out. If you dont love her you need to let her know what is going on and tell her that use are over. It is better this than to live in a life that you dont like and you will eventually break up and break her heart anyway.
@krysy1982 (1041)
• United States
3 Jan 07
You need to talk with her and be honest about your feelings. It would be better to tell her now than later. I wish you all the luck.