i fight widh my husband all the time

Well, do what he keeps nagging you about, so he'll have nothing to nag about you. Or just bear with it. :)

If this is a general all the time feeling of anger, there might be something specific underneath all this hostility bothering you or your husband. Wait until a moment when you and your husband are not yelling at each other. Then smile, put your arms around his neck, give him a hung, tell him you love him. Then ask him to help you figure out what's wrong. This sort of thing works for my wife.