The one that got away?

personally i wouldnt do it! Its not worth it! Why go on something in the past! It didnt work for a reason and why would it work now? thats my belief. I wouldnt want to risk what i have now for something that might not even work out if i had the second chance.

Nope i wouldn't. If I was in a relationship with someone I love and got the chance to be with a lost love, then I would consider it lost for good. The mere fact that I chose to have a relationship with someone new after a lost love means I had given up on the lost love. Falling in love again after a heartache is a difficult thing to do. And once it happens, it has to be with someone who has turned the world around for me. Therefore, he deserves my love and fidelity to him. The lost love? well, he lost his chance.

I am in that situation now and I really dont think I can just leave the guy i am with now because of some personal issues which i know probably could be solved but...its kinda hard to be with somebody that has no job,wont work and i have 3 kids....so i have to remain with my bf...

i think selfpreservation would kick in and i would be wary about leaving a relationship i know and am comfortable with . the grass is not always greener on the other side and it could be the worst mistake could ever make.

I couldn't just up and leave my husband if my lost love came back, and I wouldnt want him to do that to me. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and I'm with who I'm supposed to be with. I would think that things didn't work out with that person for a reason. Not to say that my heart wouldnt ache for him but I would have to admire him from afar. I have to much history, time and love put into my marriage to give it all up for a second chance with someone, and then have it not work out with them.

Ideally I will look for that someone that took my heart. But in real-life it just sometimes don't happen. There are already lots of girls that I let slip from my fingers. I know deep inside if I could just have them but I have to let go. Sometimes we need to learn life the hard way but It's that hard way that we had fun and laughter and we learned a lesson. ;) Thank for your post. It made me think the life I had before. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. THanks a lot! ??