What if Your Mom is Living with a Man who is your own Husband's Age?

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It is nearly March soon and my mother will turn 60 years old. My mother is a great looking woman who has been dating this guy for a four years. However this guy (Mike) is 39 and so is my other half. He was bestfriends with my mother's former husband. My ex-step father (Doug) was caught cheating on my mother when I interrupted him. Doug went to live with Mike and continue his life with the other woman. Eventually somehow my mother started dating Doug's best friend Mike. I know it sounds confusing. It still is for me. My mom since dating this young man compared to her age, has had a face lift and botox. Now she is talking about getting her chest done when she is perfectly fine in that area. I don't believe that she would have thought about any of this in the last 4 years if she was living with a man who was more her age group. I am very concerned as a daughter to not let her continue with plastic surgery. So what would you do if you wanted to not have an argument with your mother but also let her know that she is just as beautiful as she has ever been and doesn't need anything?